A piece of peace among the vastness of existence

Per request, one word spell suggestions for all the lovely mlm out there <3. All were composed from Latin words. 

Illectomas 

To attract male attention. Combination of illecto (entice, allure) and mas (male). 

Erepello

To repel female attention. Combination of era (lady) and repello (reject, repel, drive back).  

Refutodium

To repel or stop hate (in this case, homophobia). Combination of refuto (repel, stop) and odium (hatred, ill will, spite).

Premas

To get some cuddles with a guy. Combination of premo (snuggle up, cuddle) and mas (man).

Obviro

To meet your husband. Combination of obvio (meet) and vir (husband).

Masavium

To get a kiss from a guy, or to give one. Combination of mas (man) and savium (tender kiss).

Virilacoitus

To have great sex with a guy. Combination of virilus (male, vigorous, bold) and coitus (sex). 

Gloriamos

To be proud of your sexuality. Combination of gloria (glory, honor, pride) and amos (love, affection, sexual).

wake up with the sun

move slowly and with purpose, don't rush today

write what would make you comfortable today

make your favourite tea/coffee, exactly the way you love it

notice how the light falls in your home

dress only in your most comfortable and favourite things

cherish your hair and try to be gentle with it

treat breakfast as a tiny picnic with only your favourite things

prepare everything from scratch

and have breakfast in bed or make it an actual picnic

pay attention to every meal in the day, take a picture, write about the cooking as well as the eating

collect memorabilia {tickets, shop receipts, paper packaging} for later junk journaling season

stop by a pretty flower, take a picture, draw it

have a "closing shift", clean everything, prepare clothes for the next day, make a little to-do list

A lot of home org advice fully misses this aspect. Kondo not only acknowledges it, but leans into it. And ultimately this helps motivste me to keep my space tidy - it's really hard to me to keep on the nebulous goal of self-care, but much easier to get up and put things away if I envision my salt and pepper grinders as like, retail workers who are now standing in an empty shop (my dining table) and just wanna go home (the spice rack where they live).

Normie tidying process: that heater should be put away for summer! I mean, I'm not gonna need it

Me: well it's just chilling and also I can't be arsed.

Kondo: that heater has done a good job keeping you warm over winter and now it should get to go have a rest in the cupboard

You have been visited by the Badger of Executive Function!

May this tenacious beastie grant you the strength to break through whatever is holding you back from completing that important task you've been meaning to get to, and the energy and motivation to

Start talking to yourself.

Comfort yourself when you’re down.

Soothe yourself when you’re hurt.

Encourage yourself when you’re scared.

Feeling nostalgic? Tell yourself some memories.

Messed up? Tell yourself it will be fine.

Time to sleep? Tell yourself good night.

When you’re tired, ask yourself to take a break.

When you’re panicking, get yourself to breathe.

When you win, congratulate yourself.

If you do these things sincerely and consistently, you will witness true sorcery.

Your body will start healing itself for you.

Your heart will start feeling whatever you want it to.

Your mind will start changing your environment to fit you.

No one in this world will love, nurture and protect you as much as you will yourself.

But as with everyone else, you first have to earn yourself’s devotion and loyalty.

Here is a free pdf of xanathars guide to everything

Here is a free pdf to monsters manual

Here is a free pdf to tashas cauldron of everything

Here is a free pdf to dungeon master’s guide

Here is a free pdf to volo’s guide to monsters

Here is a free pdf of mordenkainen’s tomb of foes

including the books and campaigns

I have severe executive dysfunction. I've been dealing with it by having myself do one small task a day. So far it's helped a lot. By doing it this way my brain doesn't freak out trying to tackle everything at once.

I got my inspiration for it from this Donald Duck comic:

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