no, i’m not a quack

They missed. 😔

the online identity and gimmick-ifying of autism is so odd. I'm diagnosed with autism and yet I barely identify with any stuff I see about it anymore. It feels like autism is being rebranded as the Silly Guy Disorder that gives you smart and beautiful hyperspecific interests. it's not that I mind silly jokes or being lighthearted about being autistic- but when the entire social movement is based around marketing us this way, I just can't help but feel isolated from it. it feels like I'm not the right kind of autistic. I'm not marketable and digestible to common audiences, and therefore I am discarded by the movement in the name of progress and acceptance. it feels foul.

@mallardisaster me n you :)

Something something rainbows and unicorns

You will always be too kind to me 😭😭

resurrected dead wife watching her own montage: wow I looked so hot in that

always thinking of that “i couldn’t stop wasting time” quote

Your 30s aren't too late. Don't let nobody tell you that stupid shit.

Your 40s aren't too late. Don't let nobody tell you that stupid shit.

#as long as you're alive it's literally never too late

i think a big part of the problem is that being [x]ist or [x]phobic or whatever is treated as something you intrinsically are rather than something that describes your actions/beliefs. when you are able to shift your mindset from "i'm being accused of being transphobic/racist/etc, im a terrible person" to "this action is transphobic/racist/etc, so i should stop doing that" its much easier to take that kind of criticism and change your behavior accordingly.