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for the first half of this year, i had a blog with 700-800 followers that primarily discussed and posted screenshots of vile posts from trans-identified males on this site. that blog only came about because i randomly stumbled upon a hot discourse topic and couldn’t really believe more people weren’t seeing it for what it was. i deleted that blog at 3am in may without telling anyone. this blog exists because of that experience.

i am not on board with the idea that transness is a reason to harass people. i have trans-identified people in my life that i care about. my problem is primarily with the way i have seen TIMs treat females. to me, it seems that they are often incredibly misogynistic yet determined to be the most oppressed group on the planet. i do not think every TIM is like this. i know several that are normal people. i think the freakazoids on this website are primarily from places like reddit and 4chan, but i wish more would acknowledge this problem in their community.

i do not like the constant denial that TIMs, at the very least, experienced male socialization and privilege pre-transition/pre-coming out. it allows the insanely misogynistic TIMs on this site to avoid taking responsibility for their behavior. there is also a refusal to even recognize that girls experience misogyny from the moment they're born, which i believe is unacceptable. these are not the only issues i have with transfeminism/the trans community's general beliefs.

i saw a lot of depravity on that side of tumblr. i posted about it frequently. the community of TIMs on tumblr specifically has a massive problem with sexualizing incest and pedophilia. they push everyone to stick with every TIM and support them endlessly, no matter what they may have or have certainly done. i was repeatedly harassed for standing up against misogyny, racism, and pedophilia. i saw many others receive abuse because of their sex.

i guess you could say i’m peaking. i know now that sex-based oppression is real and is used against so-called “tmes” by “tmas” in a classically misogynistic way, even though transfeminists deny the existence of sex-based oppression. with my feminism at this point, i am prioritizing females. i am not concerned with actively advocating against trans rights. i’m just not really making it my business anymore.

i do not fully endorse every post i reblog. usually, i am taking pieces from what i interact with. some posts get too mean for my liking, even if i agree with other parts of them.

i’m a lesbian in my 20s. i love animals and i really care about conservation. i follow from martianlike.

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isff fighting so hard for a rapist and showing his ass lollllll. you can't make this shit up

#why do they love rapists so much #op

ocaledonia

one thing i dont think we talk enough about is how pretty much every sex ed resource for lesbian teens tells them they should be open to sex with male partners

i remember being 14/15 and googling how lesbian sex worked and just being confronted with site after site telling me that lesbian sex sometimes includes a penis and it was uninclusive and closed minded to think otherwise :)))

i guarantee you no girl or woman searching for lesbian sex ed resources is looking for advice on how to blow a guy or have piv intercourse, theyre looking for advice about sexual relationships between biologically female partners

i think people underestimate how ashamed and broken it made me and other lesbians feel to read that over and over. after reading those resources i felt so hopeless that i tried to force myself to be asexual because it was the only socially acceptable way to rule out having a male partner

constantly adding these ~helpful reminders~ is like telling lesbians that they just haven't met the right guy yet, and there is no context in which they should forget it

some of these were government affiliated websites insisting that exclusive homosexuality didnt exist, or at the very least that it was unthinkable and unpeakable

its a very impactful and insidious form of homophobia

kvetches

what really gets me is that marriage has historically been a form of sexual slavery and we're just supposed to forget that, go along with the traditions and have men complain about modern marriage being unfair to THEM. in my mother tongue, the word for husband is still the same word as "owner". when she was maybe four or five years old, and my mom called our dad her husband, my baby sister got so angry she threw and shattered the glass she was holding and said "he's not your owner you're not a dog" but now she's almost twelve and has learned to accept it. it's all so transparent a young child can see how fucked up it is, and by the time that child hits puberty she will be trained out of thinking critically about marriage

marmorada

Funny how if trans identified males REALLY thought their most violent, caustic oppressors were evil terfs, they would actually want trans specific shelters to escape their oppressors– like ALL OTHER SHELTERS DO to fulfill their purpose– instead of just trying to cohabitate w them lmao. It’s not about oppression or safety and it never was.

notanicewoman

Just saw a post about this

They say that cis women are worse than cis men and that cis men treat them better but they don’t leave our spaces

freckledscum-deactivated2023071

Idk about others, but as a black woman if I knew a place was full of racist KKK members that wanted to lynch me I wouldn’t be frolicking into their spaces

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i have called many white lgbt people on this website white and the only ones who got mad at me and were racist in response were…… tims lol

#genuinely saying i was screaming and calling me boo #saying ‘’i guess i’m racist forever and i should die’’#so dramaticcccc #op

fragiledate

the strongest bond is probably pad wings to themselves. the weakest is probably pad wings to your underwear

i did almost make a very long post about bug sex on my old blog just to try and piss off every incest fetishist who already hated me

#because bugs love inbreeding #and they can do it with zero consequences a lot of the time #op

tras will compare terfs to white women who owned slaves in the american south and they’ll mean it

#op

shaunofthedead-deactivated20231

this is how i imagine twitter In my head

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i was sick of the “that’s terf rhetoric” line for a long time though. it’s just absolute nonsense. what do you mean thousands of people are convinced that “queer is a slur” is a terf dog whistle

#op

yeah turns out everyone was either just wrong or lying about what radfems actually believe

#op

friendlyfreakazoid

Also it’s goofy as hell when TRAs are like “ummm maybe you should actually talk to a real trans person!!” Because like every single Radfem I’ve personally encountered had a long phase where they were a trans activist or identified as trans themselves, and it was the first-hand experience of the horrible behavior of the trans community that peaked them…

#literally would not be where i am today without transfeminists #without spending time deep in trans spaces #i said i was nonbinary from the ages of like 15 to this year lol

doingitatmybirthdaydinner

TIM here has a theory on why we exist, and his other TIM friends join in and share their genius theories. they are so stupid, and so misogynistic.

imjunebitch

if u call urself a misandrist I'm going to assume ur homophobic. I'm gonna assume that ur at the very least weird about trans women like me, that you're going to judge them based on how they pass, on how out they are, on what level of transition they are at. I'm gonna assume ur racist too. like. idk "misandry" very feels like the sorta "feminism" someone is really into when they're in high school and carefully making sure to never think about anything.

imjunebitch

and do you believe yourself to be an unfailing arbiter of who that is? and is it truly all cishet men? do you hate men of color, if they are cishet? what about intersex men? why not just hate bigoted people? why find groups of people, groups big enough to undoubtedly contain marginalized people?

fearlessfeministcat

No matter what marginalised group a man belongs to he is still a member of a patriarchy and part of this sexist society

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as a teenager i really felt like i needed top surgery to ever feel comfortable with myself. my boobs are larger than average and my friends in high school would talk about them constantly for some reason, so for years i felt like they were part of my identity in a weird way. it was very strange. but like as soon as i stopped talking to those people and entered a different social scene that feeling of needing to get rid of them went away

#a reduction may not be a bad idea but it’s not pulling at me #op

scrolling through the smash sisters feed which is a melee bracket for women and the ratio of women to tims is actually so bad

#op #i saw it before and i’ve never really liked it but holyyyy

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