The Vampyre Community has a long and complicated history with both vampiric and fictional identity. Over the decades, offline spaces have been shaped by manipulation and coercion, while certain online groups have developed unhealthy, cult-like and clique-like dynamics.
Simply sharing an identity from the same source material is not a reason to form unhealthy attachments, develop fixations, or engage in harmful behavior. Shared identity should never come before mutual respect.
There is often an unspoken expectation that these connections must continue regardless of personal boundaries and I refuse. If we cannot respect one another’s boundaries, then we are simply not compatible—and that’s okay.
I know my canon and understand the relationships within it, but I have no interest in recreating the harm or dysfunction that fictional vampyres often embody, especially within Ricean canon.
It’s unfortunate that those with fictional identity in the Vampyre Community never seemed to grow alongside fictionkin spaces. Instead, much of it remained rooted in secrecy and catfishing rather than openness and honest self-reflection, still shaped by the intense emotions that can accompany awakening and fictional identity.
Without much guidance or a shared direction, those with fictional identity within the community never evolved. Even today, despite the understandable decline of the VC, many of those same patterns of decades ago still actively exist.
The amount of times my partner @lestatirl and I have chosen to respectfully disconnect from canon/sourcemates and have received backlash or a manhunt is absolutely ridiculous. That is the inspiration for this post.













