Aaahhhhhhhhhhhhh! It is icking me why are there so many astrologers saying that 7th house is a romantic house?

Modern pop astrology has convinced everyone that the 7th House is the "House of Romance," but if you look at the actual chart. Romance, butterflies, and the spark of creation belong to the 5th House.This is the house of play and pleasure. The 7th House is not about love, it is about Contracts. In every serious traditional text, the 7th House governs two things equally that is Marriage and Business Partnerships. Ancient astrologers grouped them together because they understood that marriage is essentially a business merger especially in India like seriously if you see how they conduct arrange marriages like it's a whole thing and feels like selling a person. Anyways, a binding legal agreement where two entities combine assets to survive is what 7th house is. It is transactional, not emotional.

​This transactional nature is why the 7th House is also explicitly the house of " Open Enemies." In chart wheel, it sits exactly 180 degrees from your Ascendant, meaning a partner is the only person positioned to directly oppose your ego. In Vedic Astrology, this house is technically a Maraka (Killer) house because you cannot enter a true partnership without "killing" your independent, selfish identity. It is often said in these texts that a difficult spouse is actually an enemy from a past life returning to collect a karmic debt (Rinanubandha). The universe binds you together in the 7th House because marriage is the only cage tight enough to force you to settle that score. 😭

​The logic gets even deeper when you apply Derivative Astrology (or Bhavat Bhavam), which looks at houses relative to one another. If you count eight steps from the Ascendant, you land in the 8th House, the house of debt, death, taxes, and hidden secrets. But why does this dark house rule "Shared Resources" and "Mergers"? Because the 8th House is technically the 2nd House from the 7th. Since the 2nd House represents personal wealth, the "2nd from the 7th" literally represents your partner’s wealth.

​This is why the 8th House governs mergers, acquisitions, hidden/taboo things (sex) and alimony. It is the bank vault of the relationship. If the 7th House is the handshake that seals the deal, the 8th House is the wire transfer that follows. It is where "I" becomes "We," which is why it rules both intimacy (sex) and inheritance (taxes). It represents everything the partner brings to the table... So their money, their baggage, their secrets, and their crises. Imagine your partner and how you act around them, the parts of you they se that no one else does teh hidden side of you (8th house) When you understand this, you realize that relationships are not just fairy tales, they are high stakes spiritual and financial mergers where you inherit the other person's karma and their debts. Pease take marraige seriously and try to learn from it, grow together/through/because of that person and move ahead in life.

With 2nd house being of possessions your 8th house is your spouse's possession! That is why 8th house also represents sexual organs.

Also, it is no wonder that Anuradha Nakshatra falls in scorpio and the way Anuradha people be so loyal and deep about friendships because it's like they know your deepest secrets, they have that energy that soul bounding, ride or die. Heck yeah that is marraige. No matter even if it turns out bad it will always be intense.

7th house itself being ruled by libra is just so beautiful like have you seen the symbol of libra it is the scale ⚖️ it is you and your partner (business/love) and how you balance your life with them.

Something interesting I have also noticed that your future spouse will have prominent planet, sign or Nakshatra of your 8th house sign, planets in it or its lord. And people you partner with (as in business) will have the your 6th house sign planet Nakshatra or lord prominence in their chart. Since 6th house is colleagues also legal disputes, litigation, hidden enemies etc... Because your open enemies/rivals from 7th house your partnerships and contracts (7th house) becomes court cases (6th house). But even if not all business partnerships end up this way but there always is a threat and still 6th is colleagues.

I really request you guys to not fall for anyone's words in astrology and in life try to look behind logic. If someone explains why they think something is true or why they claim it then look carefully and if they refuse to explain and spit random stuff. Run from them. They will waste your precious time and doesn't respect you.

@youremyheaven

My experience with @youremyheaven: payment taken, reading never received . 36 days and counting …

now let’s get into those receipts and more …

1) PAYMENT PROOF : YOU PAY SHE VANISHES !

On the 19 Feb 2026 : $30 paid via PayPal for a D1 reading. Price listing and payment confirmation shown below. (Her real name has been redacted).

She then acknowledges in our chat that payment has been received. ⬇️

*In hindsight, a deposit might have been a better approach, although it likely wouldn’t have changed the outcome.*

2. STILL WAITING…

I paid on 19 February, so based on her 10–15 day timeframe, I expected my reading by 7 March. My inbox was empty — and still is.

SO I TOOK MATTERS INTO MY OWN HANDS …

On the same day my reading was due, she was actively ignoring me on this account. I created a new account and asked for reading — she responded immediately.

read carefully below

As you can see , in the timestamps, my messages on my main account were ignored, while she responded to my new account on the same day!!!!

So I AM BEING IGNORED .. OH AND MORE LIES. 👇

If you pay close attention below , She shortens timelines for new clients?!?! The greed for new prey is insane …

new account this account

Here’s where I check her .. ( this is on the new acc) I pretend there’s an Astro gc to soft launch confrontation

READ CAREFULLY BELOW⬇️

UTTER LIES ⬆️

So as you can see above , she is denying that she takes longer than 10-15 , and she says she ‘ INFORMS’ her clients of any delay . LIES 🚩. Check ( no2 above) for most recent messages to her on this account, proving she does none of the above .

WHEN I DIRECTLY CALLED HER OUT .. RESPONSES STOPPED ON THE NEW ACCOUNT TOO . ⬇️

To SUM UP WHATS HAPPENED SO FAR :

New account: immediate response then ghosts when I ask REAL QUESTIONS .

This account: left on delivered for 36 days, paid and ghosted

No response and No reading this day.

MY FINAL MESSAGE

( all of this is BASED ON EVIDENCE)

I have requested a refund, as I no longer wish to receive a reading from her. I’m not waiting any longer!!

Please share and raise awareness. If you’ve had a similar experience, feel free to DM me.

This is a documented experience supported by receipts — I paid for a service that was not delivered. Please be cautious when purchasing services from @youremyheaven.

The evidence above shows that communication stopped after payment. While testimonials may exist, they are not always verifiable.

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3. Child’s hat with bird, nalbound cotton and wool, 1000–1476 CE, Chancay culture, Peru

4. Knitted cotton sock from Egypt, 1000-1200 CE

5. Sidonian flask shaped like a date, 1st-2nd century CE, Syria or Palestine

so i’ve been going down a rabbit hole with vedic astrology again lol, and i stumbled on the whole yoni thing. basically, every nakshatra has an animal symbol tied to it, and it’s supposed to describe your raw, instinctual energy (like…the animal side of your love nature, how you connect & desire on a primal level).

i thought it was super interesting so i made a little list of all of them 🐾

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ashwini – horse 🐎 the friend who “just went on a walk” and somehow ended up in another city. restless. needs to run free. probably ghosts you but still likes all your insta posts.

bharani – elephant 🐘 deep, loyal, will never forget. has emotional memory like…scary levels. also the type to carry your emotional baggage and their own.

krittika – sheep 🐑 looks soft, will actually ram you if you cross a line. the mix of cozy blanket energy + kitchen knife.

rohini – serpent 🐍 “oh i’m shy :)” 5 minutes later hypnotizes you into obsession. very much the red flag you ignore on purpose.

mrigashira – serpent 🐍 curious, flirty, easily distracted. “i like you” … then disappears bc they saw a shiny leaf.

ardra – dog 🐕 ride-or-die loyalty + total chaos. storms, tears, loud barking, but also will sit outside your door waiting.

punarvasu – cat 🐈 independent but then suddenly sleeping on your chest like “hi i live here now.” only loves on their terms.

pushya – sheep 🐑 mothering energy. feeds you snacks, fixes your life, but needs to be handled gently or they just…cut you off.

ashlesha – cat 🐈 mysterious, clingy, seductive. “i don’t need you :)” while secretly planning to never let you leave.

magha – rat 🐀 scrappy survivor. knows all the back alley shortcuts. lowkey terrifying but you respect it.

purva phalguni – rat 🐀 fun rat. drinks too much wine, throws a party in your walls, probably cute tho.

uttara phalguni – cow 🐄 soft domestic vibes. wants cuddles, routine, family photos. literally the “let’s just stay in tonight” nakshatra.

hasta – buffalo 🐃 grounded, practical, looks chill but will stomp you if pushed. hidden strength.

chitra – tiger 🐅 main character. walks into a room and everyone suddenly forgets their name. passionate & scary in the best way.

swati – buffalo 🐃 lowkey stubborn af. looks breezy but actually built like emotional concrete.

vishakha – tiger 🐅 seduces you in five seconds, ruins your life, then disappears into the jungle.

anuradha – deer 🦌 “aww so sweet and gentle” until you realize they’re always alert, watching everything. trust issues but also loyal once you’re in.

jyeshta – deer 🦌 fragile but fierce. looks delicate, will kick you in the chest if cornered.

mula – dog 🐕 wild stray energy. chaotic but once they choose you, it’s over—you’re theirs forever.

purva ashadha – monkey 🐒 chaotic fun. flirtatious, experimental, and climbs onto things they shouldn’t.

uttara ashadha – mongoose 🐹 looks cute, actually deadly. strategic, quick, protective of their little world.

shravana – monkey 🐒 storyteller monkey. gossips in trees, restless, won’t stop talking.

dhanishta – lion 🦁 loud purrs, loud roars. wants loyalty + worship. king/queen energy.

shatabhisha – horse 🐎 runs away from literally everything. “i just need space.” gallops off into the void.

purva bhadrapada – lion 🦁 intense fire. either deeply spiritual or about to burn everything down. sometimes both.

uttara bhadrapada – cow 🐄 grounded, patient, soft. loves stable long-term vibes. will feed you soup.

revati – elephant 🐘 sweet, soft, strong. the type to carry everyone across the river without complaining.