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Ok I have a mean hot take for the girls. If you lower your standards even a little bit and go for the man whose league you’re out of, he will leech you of your beauty and he will be the one to fuck you over first. I see it happen all the time. Girls are single for a little too long so they lower the bar, they give the insecure guy a chance, he takes some of her best years from her and leaves her when he’s built up his confidence from being with her. Make sure you actually like the dude, no ultimatums and negotiating with baseline standards on this blog, OKAY?

sick to my fucking stomach for all the times i begged to be loved and seen by anyone lmao

Well I think it was brave

The intimacy is when someone understands the walls you built for your own protection and approaches them with patience instead of pressure