having it all is just a state of mind

Also, "adult animation" is largely a misnomer referring to cartoons aimed at teenage boys. It's not always true, but it's a trend, and finding adult animated shows created by and for women is difficult. (Tuca & Bertie is the only one that comes immediately to mind and Netflix cancelled it. Thankfully, Cartoon Network picked it up.)

I'm an adult but I find so much of adult animation to be immature and boring, and overwhelmingly male-centric. Whereas, shows like She-Ra are engrossing. I care about the characters. I care about Etheria. I care about the relationships and the narrative. Same goes for The Owl House. You can feel the passion and thoughtfulness of the creators in these shows. The diversity and how it's handled is also a striking difference. I identify with the characters in these shows more. They have more humanity. I'm left feeling either nothing or disdain for the majority of characters in adult animation. (Bob's Burgers is good. Diverse. Heartfelt. But its sitcom structure is often its weakest element as it inhibits character growth.)

derry girls (while taking place in a war zone):

me at the end of 2020:

Aaron Dessner: