Daddy knew you wanted a release, but he also knew you needed one. Even after your retraining and baby treatment, baby boys like you kept their adult urges. It’s only natural that a boy like you, once a man, needed to have a release. Daddy had forbidden you to touch yourself or even your diaper and it didn’t take long for the pressure to build up inside of you. You became easily upset, agitated, and pouty. Daddy knew that if he wanted to keep you as his boy, he needed to make you a happy boy.

He won’t have sex with you, how could he, he’s a man, and you are clearly not. He won’t give you permission to masturbate, it’s an adult activity, not suitable for your age. He needed a plan, a good one, a plan that will bind you to your diapers and baby treatment. There was a time he saw you playing in your big playpen with your stuffed animals. You played with a teddy bear that you seemed to like more than the other ones laying around.

Like any other afternoon, daddy put you in your crib for a nap, but this time a giant teddy bear was waiting for you in it. It looked exactly like your favorite teddy bear, but much bigger. It made you so happy to see your friend that big.

“Awww. Is my little guy happy to see his friend in his crib? Teddy is not here by coincidence, daddy brought him for a reason. Lately, I’ve noticed you needed some kind of… interaction. So I thought to myself, my boy needed to have fun with his favorite friend in his most comfortable place, his crib.”

You looked at daddy, he was standing over the rails as he kept on talking.

“I checked your diaper, you are wet, but it’s okay because a wet diaper is a wonderful diaper. A wonderful diaper can feel so good while hugging your new big friend. He is so huggable, try it my boy” daddy ordered you with a hand wave.

Daddy got you excited, he finally talked about letting you have it. You crawled in the crib to the giant bear as the wet diaper grinded against your semi-hard peepee. You’ve reached him and wrapped your hands around him. His soft fur rubbed against your naked skin. It felt so good, so comforting. You were a man once, you had sex, you knew the moves. Your mind was racing, Are you a baby? Are you a man? Are you having sex or are you just having fun with your new stuffed animal? You held the bear closer and pressed your wet diaper against him. It felt so good, oh it felt so good. Finally, after so long, you’re gonna cum- In a wet diaper, humping against a giant stuffed animal, while your daddy watches you over your crib’s rails.

Chastity is a curious fetish. It’s curious because it’s a fetish that morphs into a lifestyle with relative ease. It’s also a fetish that is just as addicting for the wearer, as it is for the key holder. The part that makes chastity the most curious however, is just how quickly it can change the mindset of the wearer and key holder. It doesn’t take very long at all to recognize just how powerful D/s can be. Chastity does however, have a few learning curves to it, but they can also be a part of the fun.

When starting out with chastity, it can take a bit of time to get the right fit. There’s a lot of components that need to fit together just right. Too tight can mean serious health consequences, where as too loose might mean the cage falls off without the key. Taking the time to figure out the right fit will beneficial for longer term wear, and putting an end to pinching, or chafing.

It’s important that the base ring fits snugly, just before it cuts off blood circulation. When you’re first starting out, you’ll find that over time, you’ll need to gradually move to smaller rings as the body adjusts.  When you’re just starting out with chastity, the male body is going to rebel against it for the first few weeks. In fact, the device will likely not be able to be worn overnight because in the middle of the night, nocturnal erections will prevent him from sleeping. Not because it’s painful, but because the penis is trying to push the cage away from the body. This causes the scrotum to pull against the ring causing it to stretch. This stretching makes him feel a burning sensation that doesn’t really hurt, but it’s a strong enough feeling to prevent sleep.

Don’t worry, with a few repeated attempts to wear the device overnight, the scrotum will stretch and the burning will cease until the cage can be worn all night long. All attempted erections can be slept through, and he will awake as a very horny locked submissive. Being able to stay locked for a full night is a milestone. The stretching/burning sensation will come back when attempting to do 2 - 3 or more nights in a row, because the body is still not used to it fully. Eventually all this will stop, and he’ll be able to stay chaste indefinitely, without losing any sleep.

Chafing is another concern, because it’s a device attached to a moving part of the body, the ring will tend or irritate the skin and cause it to go raw. One good way to combat this, is to use a clear diaper rash ointment which works like a lube, or remove the cage until it heals then try again. One good brand of ointment is Penaten daily clear protection cream, its on Amazon. This can also be used inside the cage, because it repels moisture. It prevents any kind of infections from sweat and daily use while also allowing the penis to slide around in the cage instead of sticking to the sides. It makes it much easier for him to go pee, without struggling to line his penis up with the hole.

Over time as the body get used to the cage, the skin will stretch, and jumping down a size in the base ring may be a good idea. The cage will often begin to pull forward after a few days of wear, making pullout very possible, if not tempting. Moving to a smaller ring at this point, is a good idea.

Attempted erections over time will lessen to a degree. Not because he’s losing the ability to get hard, quite the opposite in fact, when he’s allowed to be hard, he’ll be harder than he’s ever been! However, his body will have learned that it cannot win against the cage, and will accept defeat. It will not try to get erect as often, which means, his penis will be flaccid most of the time.  If you look at the cage, and see where his flaccid penis is resting, it will likely be a short distance away front the end of the cage. This means, upgrading to a smaller cage would be beneficial.

The cage should fit around the flaccid penis so that it rests touching the end of the cage. Not straining against it. The object is not to cram the penis into the cage, so that even when its resting its backing up into his body. The cage should match his flaccid size, so that when he attempts to get hard, he’s gently denied. Causing him to squirm in frustration and submission.

One other important part to remember when fitting a chastity cage, is the space between the base ring and the cage itself. The gap should not be very wide, it should be wide enough to enable circulation. It should compress the scrotum, so that the balls are snugly held in place. If the gap is too wide, when he gets cold, or is active, or even sleeping, his testicles might slip through that gap, and that can cause pain or injury. Especially if one testicle can slip through and the other cannot.

It is for reasons exactly like that, that the submissive should have access to a chastity key at all times. It doesn’t mean he gets to keep a key on his key chain. But perhaps in a sealed, stapled and signed envelope, that can’t be opened without being noticed. It’s also something that can cause him to be extra horny, knowing the key is within his reach, but he can’t use it without his key holder knowing. So safety first, can be beneficial in more ways than one.

It can be a lot of fun to figure out the right size, and experiment with chastity, it’s really the perfect way to figure out if chastity is for you or not. Once you get past the fitting stages, and getting the body used to it, the real fun begins. It’s the point where, she truly gets to decide if and when, he gets unlocked.

A whole new psychological level unlocks with chastity. One very interesting aspect of chastity is that it’s often a male driven fantasy, but the benefits of it hit the female harder. After a few days of keeping him under lock and key, she often thinks about it throughout the day, and really enjoys the extra attention he’s trying to pour onto her. His puppy dog eyes, his eagerness to please, the housework gets done, dinner gets made and she just gets to relax. A few days of this, and she begins to feel his frustration. She can feel it like he feels it, but in a different way. She feels the power of it, where as, he feels the helplessness of it.

This power that she feels, makes her feel desired, while at the same time, having her own desire. It’s an exquisite mix of emotion that helps her to discover just how much power she has, which gives her the confidence to become a little more dominant. It doesn’t take her very long to realize she loves the idea of chastity. This is a realization that even the submissive hasn’t had yet. She’s leap frogged his understanding of chastity, and it has now become her idea and her fantasy, and no longer his.

It can actually take the submissive a substantially longer period of time to realize how powerful chastity really is. At first he may have been the one pushing it, trying to move faster, wanting her to be more dominant. However, once she truly gets it, she’s going to be taking control in ways he’s not yet comfortable with. Especially when it comes to sex, and realizing that he doesn’t actually get to even touch himself while pleasuring her. The intensity of that alone, can make a submissive realize what he’s gotten himself into!

This might make him become resistant, to be rebellious at first. He may even want out of the cage, just as an excuse to masturbate. It’s okay, if he seriously wants out, and doesn’t want to submit any further, let him out. Within a short period of time, a couple days, or a couple weeks, he’ll miss it. Once a submissive has had a small taste of chastity, especially well fitting chastity, it’s nearly impossible for him to ignore it for long. It calls to him. The feeling of being locked is a feeling that is so addicting, so powerful, that he’ll be begging to be locked again.

This time around he’ll understand more of what he’s gotten himself into, and will be more cooperative. Non sexual activities will become sexual for him. Every chore, will be an act of service, which he will hope for a reward from her. Everything he does, will be in hopes to receive an unlock. Going out for dinner and a movie, might get him feeling hopeful, until she teases him by saying she feels like a bath and a full body massage when they get home. He knows he’ll be locked all night, in service to her.

Eventually he’ll have the same epiphany she had, he will feel his submission take over his whole body. He’ll realize he’s not in control, that he’s surrendered to her, and he has no idea what’s going to come next. He will stop trying to be unlocked through good behavior, and realize good behavior was never why he was unlocked. He gets unlocked, only through obedience to her. It’s a pivotal shift in a female led relationship, where he suddenly gets what it means to be a submissive. That’s when chastity really begins.

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Today your favorite game is peek a boo. Playing with your new daddy makes you so happy and joyful. You love it when daddy is hiding his eyes, you hiding yours, then he called out “peek-a-boo”. You remove your hands and see him smiling at you.

You used to play football. You were such a good player, such a competitive player, such an aggressive player. You used to tackle other players, bringing them to the ground. The rush of the game ran through all your veins.

You used to be a player. Now you are being played with. You used to bring other men to the ground. Now you are on the ground, in a playpen, being a good boy for daddy.

From an alpha male to a diaper fag. Feeling your huge diaper, again and again. From an alpha male to a diaper fag. Feeling your huge diaper, again and again.

As an alpha, you were on top of things. Bossing around other men, ordering them, fucking them. You enjoyed that life, you loved that life, but something was missing. You kept on searching online for new ideas about how to dominant other men. One day you started to talk with another alpha, who introduced himself as an ABDL dom. He got your attention with all these new and exciting abdl ideas. He got you so interested that you even thought about how it’s like for the baby boy to experience all of it. The dom knew what he was talking about, and suggest you should try a couple of things.

You were introduced to the idea of wearing diapers. “It’s just a diaper” he said, “nothing more”. He got you wearing diapers every day for a week.

“Good boy, now put on a second layer” he ordered you at the beginning of the second week. You weren’t used to taking orders, but you did as you were told. Another week of diapers, thick diapers.

“You are such an obedient boy. This week you’re gonna add a third layer” he said. “But daddy, I like diapers, but a third layer is going to be so thick and heavy” you argued. “Good! I’m going to make you addicted to enormous diapers. You won’t be able to walk, or even waddle. You’ll even have trouble crawling. You are going to be a diaper fag, and you are going to love every second of it” he said in a firm tone. It was the beginning of the third week.

Now it’s your third-month wearing diapers. During the last month, daddy ordered you to keep repeating on mantras while you stroke your huge diapers.

You thought you were an alpha, but some things were missing. You needed a daddy and giant diapers. You are not an alpha, you are just a pathetic, baby boy, diaper slave, and a diaper fag. You love your diapers, you need your diapers, you’re addicted to enormous diapers.

“Caress your diaper and repeat after me -” he said.

“I’m daddy’s diaper fag”

I'm a dumb drooling baby

I'm a dumb drooling baby

A baby monitor was mounted on your crib, and you could only stand there and watch daddy mount it. It wasn’t just a normal monitor, it was a 4K video camera with a mic, that sends a live feed to daddy’s laptop and cellphone. He said he wants to watch you everywhere he is, especially during naps and bedtimes. He wanted to make sure you are a good boy, always.

It took you so much time to get used to your new life. The diapers, the clothes, the toys, the nursery.

Slowly but surely, with daddy’s help, you became incontinent and dependent on diapers.

Regression got a hold of you, and you grow attached to your stuffed animals, which you took everywhere, even to your dreams. To satisfy your infantile needs, a pacifier became a great relief for you.

During the first week after the baby monitor was installed, you couldn’t stop looking at it, wondering if daddy is watching you. But a week went by, then another, and you kind of forgot about it. You knew daddy was in charge and you weren’t allowed to leave the crib anyway.

Honestly, you didn’t plan to escape. 

Weeks of regression went by, without having any sex. Daddy denied any desire of yours. He didn’t touch you and forbade you to touch yourself.

Every morning you woke up wet. After every nap, you woke up wet. The diaper felt so good and warm around your crotch. Still half asleep, a pacifier in your mouth, unconsciously, you started to hump your diaper.

You didn’t know if you were up, or still dreaming, but the diaper felt so good against the mattress. Thrusting and thrusting, half asleep, against your crib.

Daddy was in the other room, watching you from his laptop. His baby boy was waking up in his crib, wasting his manhood in a wet diaper. Daddy grabbed and rubbed his cock over his boxers. “Oh yeah” he thought, “a baby monitor was a great idea”.

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Anti-Coronavirus-Boredom treatment #27: I get the idea there are a few people out there enjoying my archival photos, posted to help kinky folks get through our physical distancing and isolation.  Thank you for the nice comments.  I will continue to post photos and hope you enjoy them.

This series of photos gives a quick overview of the construction of our two bondage chairs, first one built in June 2017, the other in October the same year.  After tracing the design on plywood and cutting out the pieces, we had to drill pilot holes before cutting the slots, then use a router in the openings for smoothness.  We chose to stain all the pieces before assembling the chair. The last photo shows the second chair in my home playroom, ready for use.