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I'm seeing some notes on my DM Superpowers poll saying essentially "All of these abilities are available through mundane means, but actually being able to play without scheduling issues requires magic!"

Honestly, I put that option in as a joke because I know how often people complain about it. But it's literally not magic it's just coordination to make it happen.

Anyway, here is my advice for getting to regularly play D&D (or the TTRPG of your choice):

Find people who want to play regularly.

Pick a reoccurring day. For my main group, it's every Friday. For my secondary group, it's every other Wednesday. This will obviously be a group discussion, but the host has the final word.

Being able to regularly attend games on that day is now a requirement of joining the gaming group. If you cannot regularly attend a game on that day, then you either need to find another group, or accept your status as "special guest star" rather than "regular cast member".

Anyone who needs to miss a game day gives enough notice to be planned around. If advanced notice is not given, attendance is assumed.

As part of planning a game, set the terms of what constitutes cancellation. Are you still playing if one person is gone? Two? How are you handling the character of a player who is missing?

Set a time, too, and (optionally) loose agenda; I tend to tell people "the session is a tight 90 minutes starting at xyz time. That's the goal. You can show up starting at [insert time] (usually I personally make this time 30 min pre game start, depending on my schedule). Everyone needs to be leaving by [insert time]". I am flexible on time when I can be, but as a person with kids, it's important to me that people know when I expect us to be playing by! I have a limited time in my week for this!

ALTERNATIVE OPTION: I have found that in small groups (4 or less including GM) popcorn scheduling can work really well if you aren't comfortable setting a consistent day for playing. This means you schedule the first 2-4 sessions over a period of time agreed upon (2 weeks? a month?) on dates that work for everyone. When you reach the last scheduled date, repeat.

1st day of school tomorrow!

*traditional is a flawed term that im using here for the sake of brevity, not because i agree with it or think its valid. think the things that your capitalist uncle would consider "a real job" (even if he may not respect it); anything in a physical office, but also healthcare workers, teachers, secretarial work, cleaning staff, childcare workers, professional athletics, etc. *non-traditional would be the opposite, aka things your capitalist uncle would not consider to be "a real job". this does not mean i think your job is not real or valid, it means it is outside of the bounds of what modern society deems traditional and you've faced unique struggles as a result. artists and creatives who live on commissions, any kind of influencer, sex workers etc. are examples of what should go here.