I do find it interesting how being in a relationship with a man has made me notice certain things about gender I didn’t before. Namely, even though he is a very congenial and charming guy, people in customer service are FUNDAMENTALLY much less nicer to him than they are to me. I am used to people almost always being more or less nice to me! Or indifferent. He does still have a lot of positive experiences and chats with strangers, but there are weird moments where people are plain mean. That doesn’t really happen to me.



















