I kinda draw the line with rpf at where people start bringing real-life partners into it.
Yaoifying is fun and games, and let's call them lovers, and alpha and omega, and married couple, and write 100k of smut. But the moment people use the fantasy in their heads to discredit their ship's real-life relationships makes me uncomfortable. Cause rpf is a huge gray area of where boundries lie, but to me this is definitely over it.
It's also one thing to do it under a locked AO3 account, or do it as tiktok edit where said partners can actually come across it.














