But I have tried everything that does

fanfic that I like

and i need to show you all some of these because ?????

When I say tradwife I do mean tradwife… I wrote this after seeing a Facebook post by a pregnant lesbian whose wife was her egg donor—the comments were flooded with top replies by adult adoptees telling her that the child she would give birth to would be inherently traumatized by growing up with a stranger in the house pretending at motherhood. I saw similar comments on a post by a woman talking about how anti-abortion laws forced her to go through the agonizing process of giving up her baby for adoption. The replies were filled with angry (Christian) adoptees essentially calling her a slut, child abuser, and a sinner for rejecting God’s will in ordaining her as a mother.

Usually, you would never house these two species together, but when in an emergency situation with literally nowhere else to put them, the rescue had to do it. Luckily for them, the 3 week old kitten and 3 day old fawn quickly bonded in their dire circumstance and several very cute photos were taken before the two were separated to be raised separately for release once the situation had cleared up and there was space for the fawn.

Learning the whole story also means that you get to find out that there are more photos!!

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This is UNTRUE!!!! If you’re new to Catholicism you HAVE to listen to MEEEEEEEEE. Here’s my advice:

do not want shit from doctors, thank you. disabled people, please.

Or at least, I've written a lot about this.

Here's a masterpost of resources that I've personally found useful

I'm still in the process of annotating all of it but it is all labeled and grouped by topic.

If that's a little much here's the original post it was based on. There's some overlap, some unique.

Here's a write up the personal care kit I keep by my bed

Here's how I handle my room since environment impacts me a fair bit

Here's how I handle my laundry specifically (no fold)

When I have more energy, here's resources I use to manage my house

I wrote a free minizine called The Bedside Companion that has a quick reference of my favorite ideas and resources that you can keep by your bed (good for when looking at a phone causes headaches).

I also wrote a free minizine called Fuck Goals about how I manage task overwhelm with being disabled and not being able to do anything consistently.

I'm working on zome full length zines on meditation with chronic pain and some other spoonie stuff but Go Date Yourself might be a good one too if you find yourself alone a lot. Also free.

🏳️‍🌈 This year's pride make! (2026) 🏳️‍🌈 I did finish it and wear it to an event in June, just forgot to post about it here 'till now. ;)

If I actually wear this for proper photos at some point, I'll probably jazz it up with self-fabric trim, tucker, fichu, engageantes, etc - it's a bit too modern/plain this way.

Pattern is the Amalia Jacket from Scroop Patterns, and hidden long seams were done on machine but I hand-stitched everything that would be visible. Got it all done pretty quickly in the week prior! I had to futz with the fit, as the expected bust-to-waist ratio on this pattern is only a 6" difference and in these stays I'm 10" (and I'm not even busty anymore..........) so the waist ratios of all the pieces are kind of uneven (oops). but in the end it's not even noticeable, so I'm happy enough! it just means i'm going to have to do the same futzing the next time I use it. really though, my kingdom for more patterns that have larger b-w ratios.