people improve when they're given external support

The way that some of y'all talk about queer people that you think are weirder than you is fucking disgusting honestly

"We need to get these freaks and degenerates out of our community so that we can more effectively appeal to the moral sesibilities of people who hate us" I am going to beat you to death with a hammer

it’s crazy that people think “women can be bad/evil too” is like a revolutionary new take that now needs to be said because feminism (which in their minds is “women are good”) has successfully run its course and and we need to swing back in the other direction to restore balance or something. as if the idea that women are evil wicked slutty resentful conniving gold-digging liars who take advantage of society’s sympathy towards them to manipulate situations to their advantage and fuck men over hasn’t been like a core tenant of misogyny since the dawn of civilization

sorry but i’ve decided i’m not going to shut up about the implications of the depp vs heard spectacle. it’s genuinely frightening how this is radicalizing people into thinking the legal system is FAVORED on the side of women naming their abusers and rapists when that could not be further from the truth. i’ve seen more incel propaganda repeated word for word in the last few weeks than i’ve seen in years. please PLEASE use your brains. this is bigger than stanning a single celebrity and hoping they ‘win’. Me Too, despite being localized around abuse in hollywood, had a measurable impact on how victims were treated outside of that sphere of power. this case and how people are reacting to it online will also have an impact. it’s just all so incredibly irresponsible.

I haven’t been keeping up because honestly it’s too close time-wise to my own assault/harassment, but a quick reminder that cases of abuse are rarely ever black and white. They exist in grey areas and in relationships. The myth of abuse coming only from [people who jump out at you from a bush] does most survivors of abuse an injustice. It almost always happens with someone you know, trust, and even love. I urge people to keep that in mind as they ridicule someone’s account of relational abuse.

lord, the men you put on this earth to wear cat ears and fuck each other are watching football instead

I love it when dogs try to help but the task at hand requires zero dogs so they just kinda stand in front of you and look serious.