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do wat u gota do 2 keep urself at ur best. love to u sis
And to you! <3

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why are you leaving? :(
Itâs just too much for me. Iâm busy outside of tumblr and I run a lot of other blogs.Â
Also, for every one positive message I get, I get 10 negative ones. I donât have time to sift through all this petty negative bullshit (Iâm not being aggressive with you obviously, Iâm just worked up).
Sorry to be leaving you all. Iâm leaving the blog up for you as I know itâs helped a lot of people.Â
Hey, Iâm just writing to let you all know that Iâm leaving this blog. Not sure if mod anne is still around or plans to stay, but Iâm out.
-Mod Paige
Honestly, this blog makes me feel so calm. Tumblr is so full of toxicity sometimes and I just really appreciate that there's somewhere I can come now that I've found it here where I can feel comfortable with other lesbians. Thank you.
Youâre so welcome sweetheart! Sorry it took so long to reply!
do you miss getting filled up by his warm veiny cock
To miss would imply that I ever had in the first place.Â
I never needed a man, and I never will. Go get your fleshlight and leave lesbians alone.Â

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Sorry this is kind of a NSFW question, but I'm a lesbian, and i just wanted to ask if other lesbians prefer it to be shaved or not down there.
No worries! I cannot speak for every lesbian, since Iâm sure people have a variety of preferences, but I personally do not care about whether someone shaves or not. The other lesbians Iâve spoken to about this tend to agree with me as well, but as I said, everyone is different.
I think that is a discussion youâd have to have with any sexual partners. :)
If anyone else wants to weigh in on this discussion feel free to reblog.
-Mod Paige
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Y'all realize most trans people are 100% comfortable with people not being attracted to certain genitalia, right? Non-tumblr trans people aren't part of this hive mind. We get that people are or aren't into certain genitalia and that being pre-op is a deal breaker for a lot of people. It's not a big deal. You don't need to completely undermine all trans people and push someone to hate us just because of some batshit community on here that doesn't understand reality
Iâve never pushed anyone to hate trans people because I donât hate trans people. If youâre referring to the last ask that I answered, the question and answer were specifically talking about tumblr.
It is a good idea to avoid tumblr genderists and transactivists because they harass us every day just for being lesbians. The girl who was sending the message was very young and I didnât want her subjected to that. Is that so wrong?
I donât hate dysphoric trans individuals who understand that sexuality is based on sex and not gender identity. I feel bad that all of these crazy reality denying people on tumblr (and in real life as is exhibited by the Vancouver womenâs library situation) are undermining your communities real issues.
I'm only attracted to female identifying people who are AFAB, ie people who have a vagina/Vulva etc. But I'm young (14) and I'm entering the generation of the community that seems to focus on inclusivity. I respect transgender women and support them, but I just couldn't bring myself to date an AMAB person (and I have seen transfem bottom surgeries, and I'm not attracted to them at all unfortunately đŁ there are definitely pretty trans girls, but I could never do anything sexual with them) 1/2
2/2 I know what I'm attracted to and I know what I'm not attracted to. However, with the huge pushes for inclusivity I know I'm going to encounter a "why wouldn't you ever date a trans woman!? Transphobe!!!"sort of person at some point. How would you recommend I shut down the people who try to insist I should be attracted to something I'm not for the sake of inclusivity? I don't want to sound like a TWERF as I've done my research and I respect and support trans people >^<
Hello there!
First of all, you arenât a bad person for being solely attracted to females (and itâs okay to just call females females because thatâs what we are). That just makes you a lesbian and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that!!!Â
I would avoid conversations with libfems, genderists, and transactivists until you are confident enough to stand your ground because they will throw every lesbophobic, misogynistic insult at you to try and tear you down. For now, follow radfem and lesfem blogs (if you message me off anon I can privately message you a few to follow!!) and learn as much as you can about the gender critical, lg unity and liberation, and radical feminist beliefs so that you can stand up for yourself.
Lastly, there is no such thing as a twerf. That, along with terf, is a word that genderists came up with to call us to try and silence us. But weâre here, weâre lesbian and weâre not going anywhere!!
Please feel free to message me off anon if you want anymore information!! I would be happy to talk with you!
-Mod Paige
Support lesbians who donât wear make up
Support lesbians who wear comfortable clothes
Support lesbians who arenât soft or feminine
Support lesbians who donât conform to societyâs standards
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Honestly I was in a really bad mental state tonight. My straight friend is texting me about her new boyfriend and how great it is, and I was disgusted with myself for having so much rage for every message she sent. I kept asking myself "Why can't I have that?" and "When will I feel that happiness?". I felt so alone, and so unloved. And then I found your blog. I feel a new pride of my lesbianism that I've never felt before. I feel a part of a kick ass community. And I just want to thank you.
Aww, you are so welcome!! Iâm glad you stumbled across the blog! <3
I know being a lesbian can feel lonely and isolating sometimes, but it isnât always like that, and I assure you will find someone who loves you and have that happiness (if not more) that your friend has.Â
-Mod Paige
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@other lesbians
use the word lesbian as much as you can. donât skirt it with gay or queer.Â
if you value our culture and continuity and want people to see vibrancy and youth and history and value in our language make yourself visible like that.Â
I donât have a lot of ways to fight back against our erasure, but this is a small thing I can do and like to do. Iâve seen it help lesbians around me.
I know thereâs a widespread lack of understanding/context on this, but âbutchâ and âfemmeâ are not a spectrum with every possible experience falling in between them somewhere. they are not just synonyms for âmasculine and feminineâ. itâs more than that. butch is not synonymous to âgender nonconformingâ and femme is not the same thing as âgender conformingâ.Â
butch and femme are a distinct identity framework that developed around certain forms of expression, presentation and interactions between women who loved and had sex with each other and that remains true now. butch falls within the category of gnc womanhood, but there are things specific to butchness that are not shared by every gnc woman. likewise, femme women may be feminine, but are not gender conforming. there are gender nonconformances that femme women share, culturally indicated behaviors, markers of expression etc that femme women engage in that do not read as gender conforming - which is why I can often (not always but often) tell a femme woman from a straight woman. not to say that one can always read an identity from stereotypes, but indicators/signals are a thing. Â
the âfutch spectrumâ post(s) that went âhigh femme, femme, futch, butch, stone butchâ or w/e, was brought up as a lesbian tumblr joke, but ended up confusing a lot of ppl about what butch and femme are. ppl who took that spectrum seriously got this perspective of it as âsuper girly, girly, in the middle, not girly, really masculineâ which is⌠not at all how butch and femme work as identifiers. if you donât identify as one or the other you donât have to pick an awkward spot on a spectrum between them because those things arenât a spectrum. youâre either butch, femme, or neither and being neither and not identifying with that framework is just fine and not uncommon.Â
I think in order for ppl to understand more about how âbutchâ and âfemmeâ came into use (especially in the gay bar scene among other related places in the 60â˛s), and what those identities entailed, itâs important to read literature, for example, like Stone Butch Blues. thatâs only one title and there are others but thatâs the first one that pops into my head. feel free to reblog with others. the way butch and femme developed in the time portrayed in that literature are not necessarily reflective of the exact way they are today, but it does give a background context, and introduces the concept that not every gay woman identifies as butch or femme and thatâs been true since the start of their use.
summary: the butch/femme framework is a specific cultural dynamic. thereâs variety within it, and sub-groups and labels that different femme and butch women use to describe themselves. but even with that variety, not every gnc woman is going to fit within a butch narrative (or want to at all). femme women are gnc to certain degrees. many women are not either. and u just canât equate âfemmeâ and âbutchâ with masculine and feminine, or with an all encompassing spectrum that everything falls in, because it doesnât.Â
the 1960s gay bar scene is so far from being relevant todayâŚ. let it goâŚ
do you really think butches/femmes just existed in the 60â˛s bar scenes, and that there arenât femmes/butches with complex identities beyond just fem/masc that exist today? are you really gonna sit there and tell me that decades and decades of history just ended silently and we all disappeared? that my beloved gender expression and community doesnât exist and has just been homogenized to âgirlyâ and âmanlyâ, and that me saying anything otherwise is invalidating? I didnât invalidate anyone, all I said is that the definitions of femme and butch go beyond just those things, and that there is a context.Â
first off butch and femme have been around since before the 50â˛s/60â˛s, that was just one of the high points of butch/femme culture being well established in gay bars. the real point though, is that those cultures did not die.  there are still femme/butch identified women whose rich and complex identities are shaped by and tied to that long history, and continue to thrive to this day. those women still have spaces and communities, and to spread the inaccurate idea that those cultures died is so disrespectful.Â
radfems and other groups wanted those subcultures to die, but they didnât. yes itâs no longer the butch/femme bar hayday (largely due to the amount of violence and vitriol they received, and the changes in the womenâs movement around them) but the framework of identity is still alive in its specific context! itâs changed and developed, yes, but butches and femmes are still here, and are still not just Girly vs Manly. the cultures remain important especially for working class women, women of color, etc. the idea that itâs a distant relic, and that âbutchâ + âfemmeâ are now watered down completely to feminine and masculine and nothing more, is an insult to so many women (my butch self included). âlet it goâ, what, let myself go? let my butch and femme friends and loved ones go? let ourselves be forgotten and close down every last space we still have and extinguish our complex forms of expression? fuck that.Â
Iâm not just distinguishing femme/butch from fem/masc in order to be âInvalidatingâ or exclusionary or whatever, itâs because those terms literally do have other meanings that are important to peopleâs identities, you canât get rid of that just because you donât care about us. âstone butchâ shouldnât be reduced to âsuper mascâ,  itâs a term for butches who want to have sex with other women but donât want themselves to be touched sexually, either because of trauma or dysphoria or other reasons. that isnât just âback thenâ, I know multiple stone butch women now, who arenât just ~very masc~. âbaby butchâ doesnât just mean âsomeone whoâs a little mascâ, itâs a term of endearment for younger women entering into butch culture relatively new. etcetera etcetera. just taking those terms and acting like none of that context matters at all anymore is disrespect.
of course femme and butch have changed since the gay bars of the 50â˛s, 60â˛s etc. Iâm not saying time froze, or that those words should be used exactly the way they were then, the ONLY point I made here is that they shouldnât be boiled down to JUST âfeminineâ and âmasculineâ, both because of the rich history that says otherwise AND the contemporary extensions of those subcultures that are still more complex than that. not that no one can have fun, or that no one can reblog a femme butch spectrum meme, I was just trying to stress that those posts arenât a serious representation of femme/butch, and I have seen some serious misunderstandings about it beyond joke posts.  I really donât think those are such ~invalidating~ awful statements. âdonât ignore LGBT womenâs history, donât ignore modern butch/femme women whose identities extend beyond just fem/masc, also donât tell me my beloved communities died in the 60â˛sâ makes me a mean hateful butch I guessâŚ..
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Sometimes I feel like Iâll be waiting forever for non-lesbians to give a fuck about us
Because she defines herself independently of men, the lesbian is considered unnatural, incomplete, not quite a womanâas though the essence of womanhood was to be identified with men.
Excerpt from the 1971 resolution passed by the National Organization for Women, quoted in Odd Girls and Twilight Lovers: A History of Lesbian Life in Twentieth-Century America (via reading-blog)