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Is being with one person not enough? Why do you need to be with multiple people? Is it a need or a desire?

I’m not trying to start a fight or anything, just genuinely curious. I cannot wrap my head around wanting to be with more than one person. I’m sure it’s just not for me but I’d like to understand.

Would it make me miserable to be with just one person? No. It would only make me miserable if I knew that I didn’t even have the option to be with anyone else. I did fine in monogamous relationships back when I was younger and didn’t think they’d last the rest of my life. When I started talking long-term with my last couple of monogamous partners, that’s when I started really realizing that I’d feel stifled and very sad if I agreed to be monogamous to one person forever. It wouldn’t even matter how great that person was or how awesome the relationship was. Monogamy itself just isn’t for me, as a concept.

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