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by disrespecting the rule of transactionality in brat/dom dynamics, you're blurring the lines of what are & aren't the expectations. that level of obfuscation is dangerous bc if your dom doesn't have a clear idea of how far you'll take a scene they might escalate things on their end that result in you or them getting seriously hurt, physically or emotionally. that or you might just burn them out & guarantee they'll never want to play with you again, since you're giving them Nothing for all the frustration you're offering them.

Not Giving Anything At All makes it so your dom is doing Literally All Of The Work. they have to manage the frustration of not getting you to behave the way they want you to despite behaving in the way you want & expect them to, as well as placing them in a situation where they have to maintain a scene that is becoming increasingly grating & objectively unrewarding for them to keep participating in.

here's what giving as a brat looks like: knowing what you want & being able to communicate that when engaging with someone. you like being a brat? okay. what do you want out of it? do you like being forcefully reminded you're not in charge? do you appreciate the predictability of your instigation & their reaction? do you enjoy the gradual switching of roles? assuming your play partner will instinctively """get""" where you're coming from will actually only get you where you already are, & them nowhere. if they tell you that's not great for them, are you gonna take that seriously? or are you gonna keep playing pretend bc you're having fun & invalidate their warranted dissatisfaction?

what makes bratting rewarding for both ppl involved is knowing the brat is escalating in a circumstance where they're ready & willing to engage with the full wrath & consequence of the dom. the fun part for brats is acting as if they hold all the power by being a tease, provocative, by instigating. the fun part for doms is showing them the consequences of their actions. it's transactional. brat behaves a certain way, dom reacts accordingly. bratting must account for this exchange. bratting is about seeking this reaction, seeking attention, consequence, accountability. it's the transactionality that makes the shit rly hit.

it's also proportional. being annoying is appealing in direct proportion to the amount of consequence you will face for behaving that way. you're very annoying throughout the day but your dom gets to beat the shit out of you when they get home? effervescent. you're very annoying in a circumstance where you know you will face absolutely no consequence whatsoever from the person you're going out of your way to provoke? you are Not fun to play with. or funny. just annoying.

if you're getting off on the idea of getting someone pent up & then putting absolutely no effort or work whatsoever in coming thru with being accountable to them, then find someone who's into denial or edging with whom you can negotiate & engage in that sort of dynamic. & please consider that you might actually just be a dom (or a switch) yourself since you clearly value being a position of power more than you do being in one of submission.

misbehave responsibly.

here's what baby doe is talking about:

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Suggestions to increase arousal, particularly increasing the need to touch between the subject's legs, coupled with a suggestion that whenever they try to touch, their hands automatically go elsewhere no matter how hard they try. Nipples are always fun, but somewhere slightly humiliating like their elbow or earlobe can be fun too, and regardless, touching the alternate body part only increases the need between their legs. Then just sit back and watch.

A resistance game in which the subject has to resist touching while the hypnotist gives whatever suggestions they want to increase desire/coerce them. Of course, as soon as the subject gives in, they don't get to enjoy touching, because they'll instantly drop deep into trance, falling into limp, helpless surrender, still hopelessly needy and completely at the hypnotist's mercy.

Alternately, a trap in which the subject is incapable of stopping to touch after they start, regardless of what else the hypnotist is doing to them, how many times they cum, or how overstimulated they get, until the hypnotist releases them from the suggestion.

State fractionation between the subject being deep in trance, loose and limp and desperately horny and the subject being awake and alert, compelled to touch themself, and desperate to drop.

Arousal control with a kiss from the hypnotist as an orgasm trigger, keeping the subject in a heavy and helpless state. They can beg for a kiss as they get needier and needier, if the hypnotist allows them to talk, anyway. Bonus points if the hypnotist teases the subject by holding their face a couple millimetres away knowing that the subject is too heavy and limp to close the gap. Extra bonus points if the hypnotist can tease the subject's body as much as they like because a kiss from the hypnotist is the subject's only way to cum, regardless of any other stimulation...