bellies, monsters, and sweet sweet fluff

Oh yeah, I've just been stupid busy and the last few years have kicked my ass depression wise.

However it feels like so many of my characters are wrapped in with hers its been hard. Don't get me wrong, breakup was my fault.

A) Apply the lard injection to the desired area and any weight gained from eating within the next 6-48 hours (depending on the strength of the injection) will collect in that area of the body. A targeted, but more "realistic" gain

B) Select the strength of your lard injection (available in 5-50lbs currently) and apply to the desired area to rapidly kick-start fat cell production within the specified area until the prescribed gain is met. Add 10lbs to both your butt cheeks, soften your arms with an extra 5lbs each, swell another 50lbs onto your stomach as you like. A targeted, rapid gain

Extra fun points:

Applying numbing cream to someone while they sleep and sticking them with a few rapid lard injections to fill out their frame

Mixing a lard injection with HRT so you get a nice rush of hormones and fat

A character knowing damn well their gaining weight but it's ok, their job isn't to go and fight anymore its to learn to be a better leader so as long as your healthy who cares? Do you ever think he surprises himself with how much he's managed to eat without meaning to and is one part impressed, one part concerned, and one part confused because he doesn't mind the swell of his stomach under his shirt and that maybe it feels good?

Hey @rosierugosa I hope it’s okay that I stole your tags because YES.

I never thought of it that way, but yeah. As a teen I was mystified at how anyone would just want to have sex with someone, like that was the goal. I understood getting off, sure, but to want to with the guy in chem class because he’s hot? Weird.

*hands over the water bottle*

And like, reducing hypersexuality in the queer community is an important conversation. We are more than our sexualities, all of us! Asexuals know that better than anyone. As such we should absolutely have spaces in our community where sex is de-emphasized. But for many people in the world sex is a natural part of their lives and what has, in the past, set the queer community apart is frank and open discussion of sexuality instead of shame. We should be trying to help the straight world adopt that frank openness instead of trying to assimilate into shame.

Also don't forget about sex neutral and sex favorable asexuals! Asexuality, like most things, is a spectrum, and we tend to get left out of discussions regarding asexuality or boiled down to gotchas regarding ace people being in relationships with non-asexuals, but we exist and aren't any less asexual because of our decision(whatever the reasoning behind it may be) to have sex!

We are also just as tired of asexuality being used as a scapegoat for attacking kink in the queer community, since that attitude not only is bigoted bs, but it hinges on the assumption that ace people who have and enjoy sex just don't exist, which, news flash, we do!

Plus a lot of us are very kinky, just sayin', so when you support sex and kink as a natural part of the queer experience you're not just helping your fellow queer allosexuals, you're helping people within the asexual community as well!

Anyway there really are tons of reasons ace people understand why we shouldn't police what people do in the bedroom, and ace people across the spectrum don't want to nor should be used as a cover for anti-kink bullshit. It hurts us just as much as it hurts everyone else.

I have some awesome sex-repulsed ace friends who are the biggest smut connoisseurs I know and who are among the coolest people I've ever met.

I wish people would stop infantilising us and acting like we're all virgins and never have sex. Some enjoy sex for the sensory experience, some enjoy kinky sex, some enjoy kink without sex, some of us enjoy these things purely in fiction, some of us don't enjoy either at all. And all of this is absolutely normal for the human experience. People don't need to have sex to be a complete human. That aside, what people do or not do in the bedroom is no one's business.

And I wish people would understand that sexual attraction aka "this person looks so hot, I want to do very naughty things to them" is nothing but a purely visceral, instinctual experience and not the only reason people engage in sexual activities no matter their sexual orientation. Understanding that isn't only important to raise awareness to our label, but also helpful for every queer person who grew up in a heteronormative, conservative environment and who had comphet forced upon them.