My freshman year, I had to BEG my mom to let me go to my best friendâs birthday party (at Chuck E. Cheese), whose mom she was good friends with. I was allowed to go for only two hours and wasnât allowed to make any other stops on the way there or back.
Three years later, my brother who is now a freshman, just got a ride to our schoolâs football game without asking, then when the game ended at 9, he got a ride to Caneâs and was there for over TWO hours. I asked him when heâd be home and he said he doesnât know bc theyâre going to Applebeeâs.
Meanwhile, Iâm a senior in high school. I got to hang out with my boyfriend of seven months for the FIRST time on her day (parents are divorced) for no more than an hour, and had to tell her what weâd be doing and have his dad text her when I got there that he was home. That was last week. Iâve never done anything to betray her trust for that kind of a leash, as Iâve LITERALLY NEVER BEEN ALLOWED TO GO OUT.












