Ladybird77

Picture this: you have a friendship that has been there in your life for like 15 years now (ofc in the beggining it's a frindship as in playing together etc, so no deep stuff), you have an "argument" which is more like a conversation that went sideways bc some uncomfortable topic had to be talked about, and yall had different opinions. It ends in a "not really talking for like a year, but not hating each other" phase. In which the friend gets a boyfriend (you end up meeting with him twice, and he's kinda weird in a rude way). You only hear about the good parts (if u even hear about any parts), then almost exacty a year later everything comes crumbling down in the relationship. You notice some sings (weirdly sad songs in insta notes from your friend) but she tells you that everything is fine, they just had an argument. Then a few weeks later she tells you they broke up. Not going into details lets just say he was an ass and treated your friend badly, but she still misses him and just genually really hurt by the whole thing. So you are there for here (bc of the distance at the moment at first only by calling each other all the time, then you're there for her in person too). Yall talk probably 1-4 times a day, you ask her how is she doing probably every hour etc. Then some months later (after you patiently listened to every story a hundred times) she starts to move on. Which you are really happy about, but as soon as there is another guy he becomes the only topic. Which you are fine with at first because it's kinda an exciting situation. Then that doesn't really work out, so there is another guy. The story starts to get intresting from here. Everytime the friend has any doubts what she should answer to the guy/should she be worried about something etc. you give her advices, listen to everything she has to say. But then even when you and your friend hang out the topic is often either the guy or she texts with him all the time. But you don't say a word 'cuz you don't want to hurt her. But while this is happening you are going trough some things which are heavy for u. Sometimes you tell about those feeling and things to your friend but she's pretty weird about it, either not responding just liking what you wrote or just says a few words which you can feel that are either forced or too careful. But you still try to be understanding (even when you know that she talks about deep things with the guy). Then your situation gets worse. You are pretty vocal about it at this point so no one can tell you that you are too hard to read. But she still acts kinda the same way. After that you start to feel rather hurt but still don't say anything. You don't responde to her for a few days/few hours, then when you do she's still weird. You decide to ask about what's up with the guy 'cuz you know they had just met. She gives u an answer in like 2 words. You still try and ask about him like a day later. Now she talks a bit more but then you realize that everything is going well with him. That's probably one of the reasons she's not really reaching out to you, she has better company at the moment.