So, Tumblr just got a lot worse w/ this update, and I doubt anything will be rolled back on this hellsite. I'm gonna dust off my Dreamwidth and start making fic posts to that site. Maybe finally figure out how Pillowfort works, as a backup.
I'll still be here and blogging until they shut the servers down.
I'll be reposting some stuff to these sites as I go, so that if this site goes down, I won't lose the important bits.
Note: If you'd like to talk, feel free to send an ask/message me. But. Please do more than just sending, "hey." The "Please do more than just sending, 'hey,'" still stands (I don't engage w/ just that). But^2! Please also state something other than asking if I'm online/available (I will also disregard these).
I can't guarantee that I will respond to messaging/asks. Something like, "Hey, you like (thing)! I also like (thing)! What's your fav about (thing)? :D" is more likely to get a response. If I don't respond, it's probably bc of one/combo of these things:
If you're not already a mutual or someone I specifically followed, and left only a "hey/hi" and/or a short/vague message
Undiagnosed (something)-ism, and have no energy
Extreme caution having grown up on the "wild west" of the web (I lurked for 30-ish years, it's a habit I'm working on)
I'm shy! π₯Ί
It's been too long since you messaged and I'm overcome w/ guilt, etc)
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when someone is completely fucking wrong about your blorbo but you don't want to argue about what basically boils down to opinions about shit that doesn't matter so you just sit there like
contrary to popular belief not everyone has an innate sense of internal gender or care to have one or seek a name for it, some people go their whole lives without questioning their occupation in one of two gender roles, but for some people, if pressed, they donβt feel that internal sense of βi am a womanβ or βi am a manβ, and in that case i feel the switch over to transgender vs cisgender relies on active identification of a gender other than the one they were assigned. if someoneβs like βidk dude I just work hereβ then thatβs valid
#i would describe my gender as not exactly βidk dude i just work hereβ #more likeβ¦..when someone assumes you work somewhere that you donβt #but you know how to help them so you do it anyway #my gender is wearing a red shirt at a target
A portion of people in the notes are like βbut that makes you trans. Thatβs called being agenderβ and another portion of people are going βthis is how the majority of cis ppl feel and itβs NOT agenderβ and personally I feel like both of them are missing the point here. Yes a lot of people identify as agender because of this feeling. Yes a lot of people with this same feeling still identify as cis. These are not mutually exclusive experiences and it doesnβt mean the agender people are secretly cis or the cis people are secretly agender. It just means they have very similar experiences of gender that they choose to conceptualize and label differently, and neither of them are mistaken or wrong to do so.
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I've just realized that I have to start packing lunch for a kindergartener who won't EAT PEANUT BUTTER!? Like the two things she doesn't care for: peanut butter and deli meat what do I even do with that!?
This post has actually become a savior post to all parents everywhere. Please feel free to save and scroll for any lunch. Ideas for yourself or child that you may need!!
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As an adult I think me and all my friends should all have matching schedules and work like 20 hours a week and also everyone lives within 15 minutes of each other why is that so much to ask
