its okay!!

hii! i hope you're having a nice day <3

this is my agere caregiver account! it's meant to be a safe space to chat, relax, and chill. age regressors, age dreamers, pet regressors and system littles are all very much welcome here (as long as you follow my dni)

about me: i'm a flip, my agere account is @agedre-kitty . i'll mostly make random cg textposts, with the occasional reblog. i don't have a little, and i'm not closed to the possibility of finding one, but i'm also not actively looking for one. i go by he/they but u can call me dada or mama or anything like that in asks if u want

about the account: some texts posts will be gender neutral, but others won't- they'll be tagged accordingly, and you're more than welcome to request different pronouns for any of the posts i make. everything will be completely sfw and mostly free of triggering content, but i'll use tws if it was ever necessary! you can also ask me to tag anything if you want.

asks are open if you'd like to chat, ask for comfort, tell me about your fav show, or just babble. no judgement here! just please try to keep all of your asks child-safe and and use tws if necessary. (this is a place to ask for comfort, not to vent about triggering things! please respect that <3)

below you can see my tags!

requests: open! just send me a theme, pronouns (gender neutral will be the default) and i'll make a little caregiver textpost for u.

*gives u a sticker* c:

dont have/dont want a cg

wear/want to wear diapers in a sfw way

wear/want to wear a collar or tail/ears in a sfw way

dont have/want any little gear

dont use any community labels

are still figuring out your regression

you have a fully adult life outside of agere (e.g if you are sexually active, drink, work, etc)

dont fit the stereotype of the "agere aesthetic"

aren't white, skinny, neurotypical, etc.

are a boy, nonbinary, trans, etc

are lgbt+ in general

are disabled and/or mentally ill

get sad/struggle with your mental health while regressing

regress because of/to deal with trauma

your regression is yours, you know yourself, and as long as you're staying safe and not hurting anyone, no one can tell you otherwise.

have a romantic relationship with your cg outside of your regression

fantasize about someone being your cg

dont wanna take sides on community discourse

dont wanna be a part of any specific community

you know who you are, you know your regression is completely sfw and no one else can tell you otherwise! stay safe, love urself and remember you're loved <3

Oh, i love this chapter! it's so fun, it makes me happy whenever i watch it. You like it too? that's awesome, my love. You know what makes me even happier? watching this chapter with you <3

heyy, sorry i'm replying a bit late to this, i've been kinda busy.

oww sweetie, i understand that. it's okay to feel sad about it, but try to remember that it has nothing to do with you! it's just not what they wanna do anymore, and its okay! but its not your fault, and it doesn't mean you're annoying, or alone, or anything like that. though its understandable that you feel sad/lonely, know that you'll find lots of people who love you and care about you, and you'll probably find someone else to take care of you (caregiver or not), so try stay positive!

in the meanwhile, im here if u ever need some comfort or if u just wanna chat! its okay pal, you're okay, you're loved and safe, and you're not alone <33

as for the nightmares- have you tried drinking some warm tea before bed? chamomile and linden are great for sleep! also try to avoid sweets and stuff like that before bed, or reading/watching stressful/scary stuff.

its okay sweetie, just bundle up with your stuffies, put on some calming music or a chill tv show as background noise, and try to sleep. i know nightmares can be scary, but you're very brave! it's alright, you're safe, and you're loved <3

I sometimes struggle with that because I was assigned female at birth and my family still believes I'm a woman and uses she/her pronouns even though I go by they/them :(

hihi!! yes ofc, here it is! im also gonna do an amab nonbinary version in the next few days.

i hope ur doing okay! i know it can be hard to get misgendered, specially by those close to you. but it's okay! you know who you are, and they can't do anything about that, and them calling you a woman won't change that, nor does it make you any less nonbinary <3 i'm here if you wanna chat or if you just want some cg comfort/pronoun validation. i hope you know there's a lot of people out there (myself included) who know you're nonbinary, and who will respect your pronouns and identity, no matter what you look like! stay strong, brave and happy.

i hope you're having a nice day, and remember my blog is always a safe place for nonbinary people, and i'll always respect everyone's pronouns here <3

hey kiddo! how are you doing? oh, you're feeling a bit uncomfy? i see. did they call you a girl again after you asked them not to? oh love, i'm sorry, i know it can be hard.

no sweetie, it didn't have anything to do with your hair! you can have it any length you want, it doesn't have anything to do with you being a little boy or a little girl! no, you're not "too girly" because you like to put cute hairclips on your hair, either. what matters is what you feel there, in that little heart of yours, and if you feel like something different than a boy or a girl, then no one can tell you otherwise! its okay sweetie, you're my sweet baby no matter what anyone else says. you're really brave for standing up and correcting people, you know?

now let's go get some more cute hairclips for you love! and later we can go play with your cars while we watch some tv, how does that sound? okay, let's go then <3

hiii hello!

oh, hey darling! how are you doing? oh, you're feeling kinda sad? why is that?

ah, i see. someone said you're too "manly" to be a princess? yeah, they clearly don't know too much about princesses, anyone can see that you're the cutest little princess! just look at your shiny crown- and your brave attitude! what makes a princess is their kindness and caring for their kingdom, and you always care for your stuffies, don't you? well, then you're just enough of a princess, love, don't worry about it.

yes, of course princesses can have short hair, and wear trousers. but sure, we can go get your sparkly princess dress if you'd like! yeah, i know it's hard to hear someone tell you you're "too manly", but i promise i don't see you that way, and all that matters is how you see yourself. now come on, my lady, let's go get your princess dress and then we can go check on your plush kingdom!

hey sweetie. oh, what is that? why is my precious boy crying?

someone called you "lady" today? oh love, that must've been a mistake! clearly they weren't paying much attention to you and they just said the first thing that came to their mind. no, prince, you don't look like a girl at all, don't worry about it, they were probably just distracted, i can clearly tell you're a boy! no sweetie, it wasn't your voice or your chest, when you speak all i hear is the voice of a super kind and brave little boy!

we can go play in the mud later- i know playing with your dinos makes you feel better. oh, you wanna stay in bed for a bit? yeah, that's prefectly fine love, i understand. here, have your blanket- nothing a nice warm cup of cocoa and getting bundled up in your blanky with your stuffies to watch tv won't fix. it's okay prince, i know it feels bad, but you know you're a boy, and that's all that matters, and i'm here for you <3

aww that's okay! don't worry, i understand what u mean c:

i think a lot of people feel that way! like, they might alternate/feel like different animals when they pet regress. its okay, your regression is yours only and as long as you're having fun and staying safe, you don't need to worry too much about knowing which one you feel like each time. i get that it might feel frustrating to not know, though!

and yeah its nice to get pets and snuggles, specially when u feel tiny. here, have some virtual pets if u want aksbsbsj

oh, hey sweetie! what are you doing? oh, that's an awesome mud castle you got there, may i join?

that's such an original idea, using flowers to decorate. this one would look pretty on top of the tower, don't you think? here- lemme tuck this little pink one behind your ear. aw, my little girl looks beautiful! it really makes your eyes shine

what? no, of course im not mad you got your dress covered in mud, princesses aren't afraid of getting dirty! plus, it's a good excuse to have a nice bubble bath later. yes, of course we can get the nice rainbow bathbombs you like. come on, let's go turn the water on, princess, we can watch some cartoons together later 💖