Kim Wanders

        “Penge link” “Pabigay ng biyaya” “Pabulong” For the past weeks these are the sickening words I’ve seen all over my timeline.Hearing a lot of buzz from University students having a sex scandal.Pages like RBREEZY, IDEAL GIRL etc.. keeping their audience entertained with the latest sex scandal  today and seeing these pages having a lot of shares,tags and comments . It’s definitely a feast of video scandals, giving a total madness to all of you perverts and gossipers out there. To make it worst?  The kind of people who feel cool that they have the recent copy of those scandals and ready to spread it to their friends and perverts giving links to porn sites as if they are the coolest person in the room if they are updated.

    And Let’s not  start with people blaming them for taping it, That they deserve the humiliation they are facing right now . That they must know the consequences before taping their most intimate moments. I want you all guys to reflect on what you are saying to them . Who are you to blame them? Who are you to speak ill will to a person that they deserve that kind of humiliation just because they made a mistake? Who are you to judge?  

 And if you are one of them . I  hope you will be aware that videos will  leave scars for the rest of their lives. I want you to imagine the unbearable pain, trauma and embarrassment they are going through right now? The thought of their lives will never be the same after this incident.

Remember they are women,  For you have a mother or a sister or a friend.Similitude to all women we love in life .. For you will do everything to protect their image and dignity.

Matthew 7:1-2  “Do not judge, or you too will be judged.For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you. 

    I’m not defending them nor tolerating them, but come to think of it we are all have mistakes in our lives,we are all have sinned. 

   John 8:7  “The one without sin among you should be the first to throw a stone at her.”

So go ahead make fun of them , I challenge you throw stones at them by sharing their videos. Does that make you righteous? 

       And for those of you sensualizing them “John 2:16 -17 For all that is in the world, The lust of the flesh, and the lust of the eyes and the pride of life is not of the Father but is of the world. And the world passeth away, and the lust thereof : but he that doeth the will of God abideth forever”  

Tis’ the season to be jolly as they say. Even if some of you do not celebrate  Christmas , Many of us take this opportunity to come home to our families. 

I don’t have much to wish this Christmas , Personally I’am thankful for what I have right now. But with all the laughter and Joyous noel .I can’t help but to think of all the others. With all the tragedies and the chaos happening all I can offer now is a prayer, 

And I Pray :  

1) May god be with the families of the 37 Davaouenos dead on NCC Mall in Davao. May the souls of their love ones find peace. 

2) Protection and safety for the people of Sarangani and  Davao Occidental who are now experiencing a 5.2 magnitude earthquake. 

3) Strength and sense of resiliency for those who suffered from the storm/tropical depression Urduja. May they find strength in this trying times. 

4) Enlightenment for the people of Israel and Palestine.May they settle their differences for the sake for their children’s future.

 Hear out what Zayn has to say to all of you young girls out there. 

 This lyrics get through me..

“Just stop looking for love, you know you still got time”

You can’t just force time to come its way when you needed to.. Especially the person. 

“This could be something if you let it be something” 

Let that something (love) find its way to you... If its not your time, Its not your time.. 

Don’t waste your time to any less than you expected to be loved . Know your worth ...

At the right time , At the right place. That love will find you no matter .

Being pretty doesn’t keep a man.

Being honest doesn’t keep a man. 

Being loyal  doesn’t keep a man.

Treating a man good doesn’t  keep a man.

Caring about a man doesn’t keep a man.

Making an effort doesn’t keep a man.

Spending time with a man doesn’t keep a man.

You could have the best intentions,

You could have the best sincere feeling, you could be a good woman

and you still wouldn’t be able to keep a man because the only way

to keep a man is if that man wants to be kept by you. You can’t force a

man to be with you. You can’t beg a man to stay. You can’t love man into 

loving you. With a man, you could tell if he wants to be kept if the relationship 

gets hard and he does everything to fight for you because a man only fights 

for a girl he wants to belong to so if he isn’t fighting for you when thing gets hard,

then  that means he doesn’t want to be kept anymore. The moral of this? 

Don’t hold on to a man who doesn’t want to be kept by you.  No,you’re not 

giving up on him,It’s him who give up on you and it’s you who shouldn’t waste anymore of time than you already have. Know when it’s time to let go, Know

 I have a lot of regrets in my life and this blog is not enough to say it. 

I have a tons of fears, insecurities, doubts about myself and often times I forget about myself... having fun, risking, and living life to the fullest.I miss a lot of good things in my life. 

Identity crisis? Is this what it feels like? I’m a young adult but it feels like I’am left behind. I feel so lonely, I feel like I’m in vast ocean screaming at the top of my lungs but there’s no one left to hear me.