𓏵 ⋮ Narciso ₊ ⊹

selfship stimboard for @kilikisser , with jirai fashion and stew stims!

omg im genuinely so sorry for just now getting to this (im also sorry to everyone else for being lazy af and finally getting your stimboards posted), plz forgive me 🙏 i honestly hope this stimboard was worth the wait. idk if it's intentional or a coincidence, but i got lots of jirai fashion vibes from you (or at least, from the picrew of you). and idk why, but i feel like kili would enjoy a good stew, hence the stew vibes. heck, maybe he'd make a delicious stew just for you (unless you don't like stew, then he'd make smth else for you instead)!

regardless, hope you enjoy your stimboard!

and yes you got the perfect vibes from me because I'm jirai myself ejhdshhd /pos

I unfortunately don't like stew but I totally see the vibes from Kili JWJDJE

Selfshipping notes game

[Selfshipping notes game]

Goal: motivate izaak to get off his ass and do stuff

At 15 notes: I'll work on my hobbit/lotr s/i

At 25 notes: I'll work on my one piece s/i

At 35 notes: I'll work on any other s/I missing in the list (at least 2)

At 45: I'll update the ship list and work on at lests 2 more self inserts

At 55: I'll finish a fic in my drafts

At 65: I'll finish a spicy fic as a part 2 for a previous fic

At 75: I'll make a new thorin layout for this blog

At 85: I'll write a new fic based on the poll results bellow

At 95: I'll make a new ask game

If this post reaches 100 or more I'll make a selfship event

Selfshipping notes game

[Selfshipping notes game]

Goal: motivate izaak to get off his ass and do stuff

At 15 notes: I'll work on my hobbit/lotr s/i

At 25 notes: I'll work on my one piece s/i

At 35 notes: I'll work on any other s/I missing in the list (at least 2)

At 45: I'll update the ship list and work on at lests 2 more self inserts

At 55: I'll finish a fic in my drafts

At 65: I'll finish a spicy fic as a part 2 for a previous fic

At 75: I'll make a new thorin layout for this blog

At 85: I'll write a new fic based on the poll results bellow

At 95: I'll make a new ask game

If this post reaches 100 or more I'll make a selfship event

[Elarië - lotr/ hobbit s/i]

[Template found here, if you use it please tag me so I can learn about your s/I too!]

Basic Information

Name: Elarië

Meaning/Origin: "Daughter of the stars" Eldar/Quendya (high elf)

Race: half elf/half man

Gender: Müllarian, genderfluid, she/any

Age: 100+

Birthplace: unknown, Mirkwood has been her hometown for years.

Current Occupation: traveler

Alignment: lawful neutral

Appearance

Hair: pale brunette/caramel

Eyes: blue

Height/Build: slender athletic, 5'8

Clothing Style: traditional elven travel wear, green & brown colours

Key Features/Scars: freckles

Personality

General Temperament: stubborn but calm

Likes: hunting, music, birds.

Dislikes: orcs, spiders

Hobbies: reading, humming, embroidery

Strengths: long range combat, thinking on her feet

Weaknesses/Flaws: stubbornness, inflexibility

Fears: never belonging even if she makes a choice on her heritage, finding out her parents were horrible people

Backstory

Childhood: born to a man and an elf whom are unknown to her, she was given to the people in Mirkwood where an unnamed elf working for the king took her in and raised her, she grew up alongside Legolas (and Tauriel), training with them and eventually developing keen hunting and tracking skills alongside combat skills, most proficient with a bow.

Key Life Events: has not yet chosen either side of her heritage and felt pressure from others to make a choice (while being made to feel unwelcome), suspected parents may be Gandalf and Galadriel but never gets confirmation, falls in love with Thorin after meeting him and joining his company (much like Tauriel to Kili and much to Legolas' dislike)

Connection to the Canon Plot: helped fight the orcs at the edge of Mirkwood but followed the dwarves down the river and helped them to shore, upon meeting bard he convinced them to let her come along for the sake of avoiding running into more orcs should she turn back and stayed with the company from then on.

Abilities and Gear

Weapons of Choice: bow, elven short sword, elven daggers

Skills: tracking/hunting, long ranged combat, sewing

Magic Abilities: innate elven proficiency for healing, unaware of anything else (lacks training).

Key Possessions: Elven hair pin from her mother, with a protection charm placed over it.

Relationships

Family: (unknown) - suspected: Gandalf & Galadriel.

Friends/Allies: Legolas, Tauriel, Bilbo, Thorin and company.

Enemies: Orcs.

Romantic Interest: Thorin, Legolas, Tauriel.

QPP: Bilbo

How do I end an OC sheet again /silly

Open for interaction, rp or what have you I suppose :3

how to engage with another person's selfship 101

when someone's sharing lore about a ship, find one part of the lore and really drive into it to help them expand on it! if someone is like "oh my f/o and i met in this place by the sea and that's where we fell in love" you can latch onto that! asking them about the setting or the feelings for both of them for example could help. like "what was it like to be at the sea?" or "what makes the sea special for both of you?" could go a long way!

if someone is sharing non-lore topics, don't be afraid to say "your f/o loves you!" or "this is adorable, i love the relationship the you and your f/o have!" validation is more than okay. on top of that, you can ask them a question like "what's your favorite part of your f/o?" or "what dates do you and your f/o go on?" small things, small things!

as tempting as it can be. please, let the other person speak! dont just answer with one words and then go to talk about your stuff. for a lot of people, that is considered "rude" and it can hurt their feelings. its best that if you can engage, please speak from the heart.

if someone sends a fic and its longer than you expected, break it down! bit by bit, maybe you read 100 words for 5 minutes, take a break, then get back to it. give it a shot! you might end up liking their writing style more than you expected. and then you can tell them how you liked their writing style or really like how they written their dynamic with their f/o. you don't have to read it right away. but, the first step of learning someone's self ship is by trying.

prompt generators, ask games, random videos on youtube. these can all be helpful ways to build on questions you can ask others. imagine you watch a video on making a scrapbook and you remember someone else you talk to mentioning their f/o scrapbooks. you can use that as a way to go "hey, what type of scrapbooks would your f/o make?" as a way to open up the door and ask questions about the ship! (if nervous about this, always ask "can i ask questions about your ship. it never hurts to ask.)

avoid competition. i know this is obvious. but if you and someone else share an f/o. ask. talk to them. give them and yourself a chance to figure things out. if seeing them talk about an f/o makes you sad and jealous, don't try to one up them. remind yourself, "my f/o loves me for me. and i love them. this person is allowed to love the same character and i am allowed to experience jealousy too." allow your emotions to be processed so you don't end up acting impulsively.

again, as much as you want people to love your ship. so do others! if others are putting in the effort, so should you! it can be tiring, yes, but friendships are a two-way street. show you care by engaging with their ship as much as they engage with theirs. it can cause a lot of isolation and sadness when someone tries for someone who doesn't meet them halfway. that doesn't mean you have to always engage full energy 24/7 with someone's ship, but showing up and saying, "hey this reminded me of you!" can go a long way

in the end, the most important part is that it should come from wanting to engage. if you do not want to engage, you shouldn't have to! don't force yourself to care if you don't but understand that as well, that others will not be obligated to care either. its a very sad reality but its best to be respectful and honest to not just yourself but to others around you.

@thorinkisser asking specifically my favorite autistic gay

reblog this with one (1) selfship of yours, and i will make a stimboard based off of vibes/what i immediately associate with your self-insert/oc and f/o!!! feel free to tell me if there are any particular stims you DON'T want (ex. stims involving slime, stims involving knives/cutting, etc.), but otherwise plz don't tell me any stims/aesthetics you do want. sorry if that sounds rude, im basically just emphasizing that the point of this is that the stimboard is a supa cool ✨mystery✨ lol. but obviously i understand disliking/not wanting certain stims for whatever reason(s) you may have so dw

you can find some examples under the tag #void stimboard on my blog, but ill also go ahead and link some examples as well. i look forward to making a stimboard based off of whatever selfship you provide!

examples: 💙 🧡 💙 🧡

status: open!!!