What happened? Are you okay???
Hey Anon. I don’t know how long this has been in the inbox, but I’m going to try my best to answer since you seem concerned.
To clarify before we begin, I am not Vam. I am one of Vam’s friends, he just gave me access to this account as while he’s no longer on Tumblr because of this, he wants people to know what truly happened.
To my knowledge (A.K.A what Vam has told me about this situation), Max/Break/Shroom/Whatever names he uses (I don’t want to check as, to be perfectly honest, I would not touch his blogs with a ten-foot pole), who currently uses the urls hellocharlottes, breaksart and 18memory (But previously used breakreim, twoyearz, kindnolonger and enejpeg), attempted to distance Vam from one of his friends and his partner for reasons I will mention. After realizing this, Vam would eventually end up trying to get away from Max. They have said to me that the way they went about this (Which was to shut this blog down and move to another one) was not the best way to handle it, but it was a kneejerk reaction they had as they realized it was a major red flag.
He has also attempted to pin Vam’s friend (Who is a CSA victim) as a pedophile for owning a sippy cup, which they owned for sensory reasons and not for anything such as a/geplay or D/DLG activity. Something he refuses to mention is how he said he thought it was “weird” (Even though he was fully aware why they had the cup), which caused them to apologize and then throw the cup away. He has painted this situation as if they openly said it was for some kind of kink activity, and then refused to stop mentioning it.The friend in question is an adult (But a very recent adult at that, they met Max the week of their Eighteenth birthday), but they constantly made sure not to overstep their boundaries with anyone in the friend group (Who were minors) and asked them to tell them if they were making anyone uncomfortable.
Max did not tell them, and instead went to Vam to frequently vent his frustrations about them. He then attempted to distance himself from them, but since they and Vam are close, he tried bringing Vam along with him. He attempted to distance Vam from his partner as they were close to that friend as well.
There is more to this situation than what I just explained, but this is essentially all you need to know to answer your question. Vam is safe, but most likely won’t come back for a long time because of all this.
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