charlie

sometimes love is just doing things without having to be asked, making a cup of tea for someone as they’re working, packing an extra lunch because you know they’re rushed for time. Love doesn’t have to be expressed in grand gestures, to me, the little gestures of love matter more.

does anyone else feel like they constantly have to justify everything they do? Iike I’m always mentally preparing a reason behind everything just in case anyone was to question it.

REBELLION. 

y’all will call healthy coping methods ableist (going outside & getting fresh air, cleaning your room, taking a shower, journaling) but then say lashing out at your partner or friends is an okay coping method so do you ACTUALLY want to get better or do you just want an excuse to be an asshole

Tell me I’m pretty and play with my hair, but also please slap me across the face and call me your dirty little slut

actually sleeping with someone is so nice like waking up in the middle of the night and snuggling closer or lazily giving them a kiss or just feeling their arms around you squeeze slightly even though they’re in a deep sleep or handholding while you both are asleep ugh that’s that shit I like

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there is no war in ba sing se

I just realized that literally three hours after I posted this, Dr. Garramone’s called me to tell me they had opened up two extra surgery dates in December and I was first on the waiting list. July 20th was wild.

HUGE THROWBACK. i’m now over 3 years on testosterone and almost 3 years post-top surgery. what a ride