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Tuna used for sushi and sashimi and tuna for canned tuna are different kinds of fish.

・Bluefin tuna: The finest fish, not just tuna. It is commonly called bluefin tuna.

・Southern bluefin tuna: Also called Indian tuna. It is a luxury item because it resembles bluefin tuna.

・Bigeye tuna: More than 40% of the tuna consumed in Japan is bigeye tuna. Bigeye bees come from their large, wide eyes.

・Yellowfin tuna: It is named yellowfin tuna because of its yellow body. Most widely distributed, affordable and accessible in the world. It is also used in canned food.

i had a bunch of girls i've never met over for a women's group. every single one of them denied my offer to make them tea (despite already making myself a mug anyways), get them water, a scone, etc.

i can tell when people refuse to let me be a good host because they "don't want to be a bother". like no!! please be a bother!!! i want to serve you and make you comfortable in my home!

"I wish someone would see through it when I tell people I'm fine-" Well, but have YOU considered not lying when people ask you how you're doing?

"I am so resentful of my friend because they keep doing this thing that really bothers me-" Well, but have YOU directly communicated that the thing is bothering you?

"I am burning out because my friend keeps expecting me to help them with serious struggles-" Well, but have YOU tried to establish the boundaries you need to feel okay?

"No one ever asks me about this thing I really care about-" Well, but have YOU brought it up yourself?

"I miss my friend but they haven't texted me-" Well, but have YOU been reaching out to them?

Being cared for is not a fantasy. But you have to let people know you need it. And you have to understand that sometimes they will let you down. Just like you totally could live in a cute farm, but you still have to shovel shit, and the crops sometimes die anyway. Or maybe you win the lottery, but you still have to manage your money and learn real estate law.