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To love yourself is to be selfless.
âHow I Fell In Love with Myselfâ, novel by Ayana Symone (via journalinq)

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âHow I Fell In Love with Myselfâ, novel by Ayana Symone (via journalinq)
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I now blog every Sunday on my new website at ayanasymone.com. And, if you become a member and subscribe to my mailing list, you will be receiving an email from me EVERY WEDNESDAY. Consider this a very personal invitation. You & I go way back!
Iâm more than willing to catch up if youâd like to email me at ayanasymone.com/contact and hear about whatâs been going on in your lives. Itâs been a moment since weâve talked!
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To love yourself is to be selfless.
âHow I Fell In Love with Myselfâ, novel by Ayana Symone (via journalinq)

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Seventeen-year-old Christia Carter fell in love with the boy of her dreams: a charming, confident, yet sometimes confusing, AJ Taylor. However, despite a year of spontaneous adventures downtown, late-night conversations, and regaining self-confidence together, he strangely disappears. Missing him desperately and confused as to why he would abandon her, Christia comes up with one possibility: maybe AJ never loved her at all.Â
After battling long, sleepless nights, judgmental lectures from her religious parents, dark thoughts clouding her mind, and questions regarding her self-worth, Christia is a set on a journey to find out who she is mentally, emotionally, and spiritually with a growing hope that maybe, she can live without AJ after all.
Questions about self-love, homosexuality, âreligionâ vs. Christianity, betrayal of friends, along with other provocative issues are deftly explored and fleshed out in this captivating novel. Readers of all ages will find something of value in its pages.
âHow I Fell in Love with Myselfâ by Ayana Symone is available on Amazon NOW.Â
Direct link to Purchase:Â https://www.amazon.com/How-I-Fell-Love-Myself/dp/1981813489/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1516633527&sr=8-1&keywords=how+i+fell+in+love+with+myself+by+ayana+symone
Ayanaâs site:Â https://www.ayanasymone.com/
To love yourself is to be selfless.
âHow I Fell In Love with Myselfâ, novel by Ayana Symone
Seventeen-year-old Christia Carter fell in love with the boy of her dreams: a charming, confident, yet sometimes confusing, AJ Taylor. However, despite a year of spontaneous adventures downtown, late-night conversations, and regaining self-confidence together, he strangely disappears. Missing him desperately and confused as to why he would abandon her, Christia comes up with one possibility: maybe AJ never loved her at all.Â
After battling long, sleepless nights, judgmental lectures from her religious parents, dark thoughts clouding her mind, and questions regarding her self-worth, Christia is a set on a journey to find out who she is mentally, emotionally, and spiritually with a growing hope that maybe, she can live without AJ after all.
Questions about self-love, homosexuality, âreligionâ vs. Christianity, betrayal of friends, along with other provocative issues are deftly explored and fleshed out in this captivating novel. Readers of all ages will find something of value in its pages.
âHow I Fell in Love with Myselfâ by Ayana Symone is available on Amazon NOW.Â
Direct link to Purchase:Â https://www.amazon.com/How-I-Fell-Love-Myself/dp/1981813489/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1516633527&sr=8-1&keywords=how+i+fell+in+love+with+myself+by+ayana+symone
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but all i want is some sort of friendship.. i dont know sorry i'm kinda just ranting because i literally trust no one personally other than my sis and she gets tired of hearing it so;// how do i get over him?? what should i do? should i try more and become closer friends? should i text say hi more? what if he gets the wrong idea and becomes distant?? i dont know ughh ok sorry for spamming!! this is the last one! haha thanks if u can help me xx
@unconditionalloss i cannot apologize ENOUGH for such a delayed response. iâve been doing such an awful, poor job of keeping up with this blog, and it sucks because i really want to chit chat with cool people like you!! gaaah, please forgive me! your current situation means the world to meâliterallyÂ
okay, so, while reading through all of your messages, all i could think was one thing: I FEEL YOUR PAIN! that inner dilemma of wanting to be friends even while recovering from having a âthingâ with that person is something iâm extremely familiar with. itâs common, itâs understandableâiâm positive weâre not the only ones who have been through this. not to mention the whole âwhy do i even like himâ thought process. girl, donât even get me started on the amount of times i have thought that, ugh. so, youâre not alone. situations like these are inevitable. however, i hope to answer your questions about these things ⥠iâve been asking some similar questions, so itâll be fun learning together   Â
how do you get over him? well, ask yourself this. (iâve been asking myself this a lot) if you want to get over him, why do you still want a friendship with him? i know, i understand. you two have known each other for five years and it would hurt if you two split because of what you once had. but, if you really want to get over him, you shouldnât still want a friendship with him because letâs get really real, that friendship is going to end up with liking him again and thatâs going to refuel the whole cycle you are currently trying to get out of. and iâm not saying that you have to avoid him, but being as close of friends as you once were all the while trying to get over him is nearly impossible. so, just be honest with yourself. do you really wanna get over him? if the answer is no, congratulations, youâre normal (and you and i are a lot alike). if the answer is yes, ask yourself why you still want to be close with him and consider that being âjust friendsâ with someone you had a thing for is Impossible in disguise
expounding on if the answer is ânoâ, you have to start accepting some things here, starting with the fact that he has a girlfriend. you have to back off after that. again, it may seem harmless to be friends with him, but noting that you undeniably still have some feelings for him, you canât pursue friendship any longer. canât say it enough. itâs crucial that you accept this. youâre battling some really real feelings, and i understand it, but those feelings should only go so far. in addition, you have to evaluate this asking yourself another dreadful question, âwhy do i even like him?â you were preaching to me when you wrote, âhe liked me first and i fell hardâ cos thatâs seriously how i am, too. not to get personal, but iâm not really the type of person to get any attention from boys whatsoever, so when a guy does show interest, iâm quick to think that i have a lil something for him too lol. you and i both have to be careful with this, and this requires honesty. why do you like him? is he cute on the inside, too? let it be more than just a âwe both like each otherâ thing. truly and honestly answer that for yourself
so! i hope these things helped! itâs good to know that iâm not the only one who asks myself the questions that you do. you actually helped me get the answers to some of my own, and thatâs something that i cannot thank you enough for! but, hey, together, letâs just remember one thing, the most famous phrase girls around the world use to encourage one another: there are plenty of fine fish out here in this sea! and weâre gonna find ours! and, heâs gonna fall in love with us, treat us like royalty, and make us forget about all the frogs we mightâve kissed. the key is to wait and to wait patiently. at the right time, weâll meet him. believe it! speak it into existence!
again, thank you thank you thank you for this. youâre honestly so cool lol, and youâve got a friend in me, love bug. thanks for existing :)
- yanaÂ

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Hello beautiful soulđđ, There's this guy who's really kind and loving.. Way too much... He doesnt give me room to breath and he's very sensible, this guy is my boyfriend. He loves me very much but i cant reciprocate his feelings anymore.. I really care about him but i can't see myself with him anymore.. He's very sensible and i can't leave him now or he'll stop taking care of his studies.. So i was thinking of breaking it to him hen we finish school, what do you think? Thank you very muchđ
hey lil lovely!! i wish i wouldâve saw this soonerâcould you forgive me for replying so late? i have no other excuse rather than i never really found the perfect time to sit down and respond to this. i wanted to make sure that my response isnât rushedâespecially with a question like thisâĄ
sooo my usual response to questions like these are usually: âbreak up with him! if you donât have any feelings for him anymore, just call it quits. do it for YOUR benefit.â however, iâve learned that advice like that is really ineffective in cases like this. from what youâve described your boyfriend as, anon, he really is a great guyâsomeone who i would think twice about breaking up with just because you donât have strong feelings for him anymore. iâve got to be really honest with you here, booâthat attitude of âwell, if heâs not making me feel good anymore, iâm just going to leave himâ is a very selfish and damaging mindset. it seems like youâre making the relationship all about you. of course, this whole response would be different if he cheated on you or abused you, but reading that he treats you like a princess doesnât leave any room for wanting to break up with him, you know? anon, youâve got to understand first and foremost how temporary feelings are. i mean, if you base everything you do off of how you feel about it, everything you do wonât be long-lasting. itâll all be meaningless. donât you want something thatâs eternal? if you do, then you have to look at the reality, starting with the fact that you have a boyfriend who loves you, cares for you, and treats you the way you deserve to be treated. of course, not everything he does is gonna make you feel like youâve seen the mountain top, but again, being totally honest here, that isnât his job. he should want to make you feel that way, and from what iâve read, he is, but if the relationship is all about getting down on his hands and knees to make you feel good, it becomes toxic. so, please, reconsider your decision to break up with him, even if itâs at a time that seems âconvenientâ for him. think about the real reason why you want to let him go, ok?Â
if i got the whole picture wrong, then my final word of advice would be to talk to him about it. you know this situation way more than i do, and i encourage you to not only tell him about it, but also tell any close friends or family members whom you trust and who love you. iâve said all of this out of lots and lots and LOTS of love. my heart is that you do whatâs right! Â Â
youâre a true champ, boo. have a great day!
- yanaâĄ
My friend has been going through a tough time, constantly thinking he's never going to catch up on his work and it's stressing him out. I was wondering if you had any advice on what I could say to him to make him come round and not give up on himself? Thanks so much I love ur writingđ
hey, love!
your friend and i are in the same boat here to be completely honest with you. i know exactly what he's feeling! it's like as SOON as you get one thing done, another thing pops up, and it is exactly as frustrating as i'm sure he's feeling. i was looking for some tips and words of advice myself for this situation, so that i can avoid being overwhelmed and instead be motivated to get to all of my work, and i did learn some very keen things that i'd love to share with you and your friend ⥠i think it's so sweet how you want to help him out! you're a good friend :)
the first thing i think would help him out is to plan ahead! before he goes any further into what he needs to complete next, i'd advise taking some time to make a scheduleâto divvy up his time and decide how he needs to use it. sometimes, we think we can squeeze everything together in a small amount of time, but sooner or later, weâve got to be honest with ourselves. weâre gonna need a few days to catch up physically and mentally, donât you think? so creating a planner or a schedule of some sort to give him fair time to complete each project is highly recommended!
next, i would advise to focus on one thing. if thereâs anything iâm guilty of, itâs doing the exact opposite. i force myself to think about the many things i have to complete, and discouragement hits me like a wrecking ball. iâll get really anxious and worried and thatâs definitely not what anyone needs when theyâre trying to stay motivated and focused. so i think it would help a lot to tell him to focus on one thing and one thing onlyâi.e., what is due first, what is most important, etc. and go from there! thatâs helped me tremendously!
and lastly, tell the brotha to take it SLOW! i know it seems like a huge necessity to hustle, but sometimes, the reality is that we need to slow it down in order to get things done. here is one thing that has helped me: it is OKAY to take a break. after a few tasks are done or even if you feel way more behind than you are, this sounds really silly, but iâd advise taking a break. let your mind drift off a bit, eat some pretzels, put your feet up for a while, and try to breathe. heâs gonna break down if heâs always in work mode. itâs totally okay if he rests!
this is what i have been learning ⥠and, iâll be the first to tell you that this advice is hard to follow, trust me. i, myself, am struggling with this right nowâwith school coming up (and like five million reports due), with my work hours adding up, with trying to complete the biggest project of my life, with desperately wanting to chat with wonderful people like youâitâs rough! so, tell your friend that heâs not alone in this. iâm gonna be right with him trying to take my deep breaths, as well. weâre all in dis together! i believe in us!
i donât have enough keys on my keyboard to express my love for you. youâre awesome! have a blessed day âĄ
- yana