Anger has been simmering in me for months because my boss told me on my yearly review that I am (honest to god) "too polished and put together" and she views this as a downfall because she wants to see "my mess" and "trust each other." This is the same woman who, when she asked how I was and I told her that it was a beautiful day and the birds were singing outside my window she said "wow" with a straight face, who didn't ask how me or my daughter were after I gave birth a month early, who makes me feel guilty about taking time off after she's come back from a long vacation, who acts like I'm an annoyance whenever I'm forced to speak with her. I love this job but don't know how much longer I can stand the bullying/being disdained for no reason