I'm the one I should love

no ones saying shipping is wrong here I've been shipping Jimin and Jungkook literally for 4 years now but what I'm trying to get across is when you step into that territory of "I don't ship them because that's immature - I just KNOW their together" it becomes dangerous and I'm going to say it because no one else will : homophobic. and I know you're probably thinking how can thinking two men are together be homophobic? But let's be real here Jimin and Jungkook can flirt all they want and hug and kiss and whatever but they have not come out, and when you say things like you 'know' theyre together and no one can tell you differently and you tell others they should think that way that's straight up trying to out them. Don't tell gay people what is and is not going too far, why don't you guys try, idk, actually listening?

I'm really glad Homophobia is still alive and well

Ummm this is sarcastic right

I just had to deal with some het bs, don't worry 😂

Ahh I’m sorry that’s shit gllll

I'd like to talk about this but I'm unsure if I can since I am straight. I don't think I agree with the tweet but at the same time I dont know if I'm right. I think.. I can imagine where the person is coming from but then at the same time I'm like.. so what? It of course depends in what context someone says an idol is gay, is it a joke (like haha so gay *but we know I'm not serious bc he could never be gay ugh*) or is it meant as an insult... that obviously would be wrong. But if the person says an idol is gay bc they genuinely think that.. what does it matter then if the person themselves is gay or not?

I am straight but I just have an issue in general with people categorizing feelings by sexuality. We don’t say when a straight person gets flustered that they “straight panicked”. It’s just panicked. Why are we categorizing people when they show their feelings? If a guy seems to be attracted to another guy they use “gay” attached to it, when it’s just a person attracted to another person. I really believe in the broad idea of “love is love”. Is gay interactions, feelings, and love ANY different than straight or bi or other sexualities? I never liked or understood the necessity of the labeling of these reactions of adoration or love as gay this or gay that it just IS. For example, if two girls hold hands, do you call it gay hand holding? Whether they are gay, straight, in a relationship or just friends, why the need to attach gay to it. Do people just feel the need to highlight that there are gay people to the extent that they are attaching it to people’s interactions? There’s the politics and then there’s the actual people that they are using to tag the sexuality to. I don’t go around pointing out who’s gay and who’s straight either. It’s not for me to state. It’s the actual person, if they decide. I really don’t know what sexuality that JK&JM are or others for sure bc they haven’t said anything. I try to just state what I think which is that I DO believe that they love each other. But their are so MANY forms of relationships and sexualities, that I don’t presume more than that and throw around a particular sexuality at them whether it’s straight, gay or otherwise. I do see other shippers who DO love to shout in loud statements that these two are gay or straight. I I don’t agree with either bc it’s not confirmed by the actual boys themselves. My concern is that we respect the boys first. Let THEM come out on their own, if it’s even needed or any of our business. It’s not for shippers to do. I also won’t tell people of the lgbq+ community what to do. It’s just my two sense on this.

im not critisizing your point i think its well thought out, but things like "gay panic" and other jokes like that were made by the gay community because so many of us grow up with this idea that being gay is wrong and when we get a crush we panic because we have this underlying feeling that its wrong or that our crush will hate us and/or hurt us and that stems from how we were brought up, we make these jokes to bond with each other in our safe community but when straight people make these jokes they don't even realize where they came from or why we make them and that's damaging - that was the point of this tweet

Jimin dragging Hobi across the room to show him a funny dance he made up

*soft gasp*

Imagine thinking that bi lesbians are not valid but straight men are ?

wtf is a bi lesbian?

Yes I am equally confused