Jinisha

There is a difference between action and words i.e. speaking and doing.

Relationships require you to give space to each other rather than constantly being besides each other and keep talking.

The question is how much space looks like giving space, not making it look like your partner doesn't care?

Here are a few things you can start with:

• Manage your work

• Work your way to stress management

• Find ways to spend time together

• Use "I" statements that are neutral and/or positive

You could do this before...you could do it again

You weren't affected by things this much before...you can set healthier boundaries again

Change is good, it can make you stronger & learn things.

Find certain non-negotiable similarities that are your certain values, beliefs, how a relationship should be, etc.

The rest you can always adjust or eliminate or come to a common point as a part of difference in a relationship.

It's not built on compatibility, vibes, etc.

It's two completely different people having different values, belief systems and pasts which may or may not match.

It's more about enjoying the company, having similar ideas about a relationship and willing to compromise and work on the relationship.

Person can intend anything & everything.

What the person does to maintain that intention matters.

How the person behaves and/or stays consistent with intention & action matters the most.

It's because it narrows your prospects as many people view the online space as a medium to be casual rather than serious. Not that everyone isn't serious, but probably the percentage is lesser.

Wait till you find someone who you think fits your non-negotiables without doubting yourself.

You reject others and others reject you. Don't see this as your loss or someone trying to judge or offend you. See it as a process of elimination for others and yourself.

If you catch feelings, please give yourself time to process them and then move forward with the process.

Now there's nothing wrong in consuming such content from social media or an actual wedding, but it depends on how much that affects you.

If you are single then you can feel overwhelmed and make you feel that you won't find 'the one' and insecure. This is the time to believe in yourself and love yourself even more. Spend time with yourself and people who love yourself. It's not the time to rush to find someone just because it's the season of marrying.