i’m burning the candle at ends you’ve never heard of

i’m burning the candle at ends you’ve never heard of

adhd will get you thinking "i should make this doctors appointment" every day for 7 months and counting

none of us are making those appointments huh

always remember that the “genius serial killer” narrative is a blatant cover for the fact that the police will always look the other way when it comes to white cis men exhibiting blatantly violent and hateful behavior

Important to remember that people like Jeffrey dahmer targeted minorities because cops did not care about violence against them. It’s not just cops being incompetent, it’s the systematic violence, racism, classism, transphobia, and homophobia in the police system

something i have been doing recently is asking new people i meet, work with, etc for their card, or i take personal business cards when available, get as many as possible, and then constantly offer people "my card" which is just a random card from the ones ive collected.

everyone ive tried this with has noticed immediately

I cannot stress enough how important it is to do silly, frivolous things that serve no other purpose than making you happy.

the show (going out to get groceries. making myself a nice dinner. showering and opening the windows. being kind to myself in everything i do) Must go on

The purpose of life is to get really into stories that drive you so crazy you sometimes feel the need to throw up from how much you love them

And this, my non-American friends, is America in one image. 

The literal V-Card

We need this energy for every visible Nazi, White Nationalist, Christian Nationalist, ect

the absolutely wild implication of this, that god was previously playing fast and loose with his own acts of good and evil but then had to start being considerate about what he was doing because now mankind is watching and we know.

God's worst mistake was opening our eyes and mouths, for now we can turn to him and name his sins

The one thing men in the 1700s did right was have long hair they tie back into a low ponytail with a little ribbon and also have a few stray strands at the front. Almost everything else they did that century was inexcusable though

Going to see children and adolescents dance badly, play ball badly, sing badly, play recorder badly because they are young: YES! YOU ARE LEARNING! INCREDIBLE!

I bet if we were treated with this kind of support and encouragement as children we’d carry more enthusiasm for learning and trying things into adulthood and less shame about being imperfect or bad at things.