🩷Terrica Sallee🩷

Raising Kids Without Losing Your Salvation (A Christian Mom’s Slightly Sarcastic Guide to Parenting Big Kids, Teens & Adult Children) Let’s clear something up.People act like parenting gets easier once kids are older.Respectfully…Who told that lie? 👀Sure, they stop needing help opening yogurt tubes.But now?They have:🔺️opinions🔺️attitudes🔺️social media🔺️relationships🔺️car keys🔺️independenceand…

When Someone Only Loves You When It’s Convenient Let’s talk about a kind of heartbreak people don’t always recognize…Being loved only when it’s convenient.When they want attention?They show up.When they feel lonely?They text.When life gets hard?Suddenly you disappear from their priorities.And somehow… you’re left wondering what changed. Conditional Effort Isn’t Love Love shouldn’t feel…

Stop Confusing Attention With Effort Let’s talk about something people confuse all the time…Attentionand effort.Because trust me — they are NOT the same thing. 👀Someone texting you at 11 PM because they’re bored?Attention.Someone liking your pictures but disappearing when things get real?Attention.Someone showing up only when it benefits them?Attention.And somehow… we start mistaking crumbs for…

You’re Not Hard to Love… You’ve Just Been Loved Wrong Let’s talk about a lie way too many people start believing after heartbreak…“I’m too much.”“I’m too needy.”“Maybe I’m hard to love.”But what if that isn’t true at all?What if…You were just trying to receive love from people who were never capable of loving you the way you deserved? The Wrong Love Will Make You Question Yourself You start…

You’re Not “Too Sensitive” — You’ve Just Been Hurt Too Many Times Let’s talk about a phrase people hear way too often:“You’re too sensitive.”But most of the time?That’s not actually true.Sometimes what people call “sensitive” is really:Emotional exhaustionUnhealed painAnxiety from inconsistencyA nervous system that’s been through too muchAnd there’s a difference. Hurt Changes the Way You…

Sometimes Closure Isn’t an Apology… It’s Acceptance A lot of people stay emotionally stuck waiting for closure.Waiting for:An apologyAn explanationAccountabilityOne final conversation that magically makes everything make senseBut here’s the hard truth…Sometimes closure never comes from them.Sometimes it has to come from you. Not Everyone Will Give You the Ending You Deserved Some people…

Healing Isn’t Linear… And That Doesn’t Mean You’re Failing Let’s talk about something people don’t say enough.Healing is messy.One day you feel strong.The next day something reminds you of them… and suddenly you’re emotional all over again.That doesn’t mean you’re weak.And it definitely doesn’t mean you’re failing. Healing Comes in Waves People think healing should look like a straight…

Stop Romanticizing People Who Only Gave You Bare Minimum Energy Let’s be honest…Sometimes we don’t miss the relationship.We miss the fantasy we created around it.We replay the little moments.The occasional affection.The rare effort.And somehow…we turn bare minimum energy into something deeper than it actually was. Bare Minimum Is Not Love A text back isn’t effort.A compliment isn’t…

The Right Person Won’t Make You Question Your Worth Let’s talk about something a lot of people learn the hard way…When someone truly values you,you won’t spend every day questioning where you stand.You won’t constantly wonder:“Do they even care?”“Am I asking for too much?”“Why do I feel so insecure around them?”Because real connection doesn’t leave you emotionally starving. Love Shouldn’t Feel…

Stop Giving Second Chances to People Who Never Gave First Effort Let’s talk about a pattern a lot of people get stuck in…Giving second chances.And third.And fourth.And “this time will be different.”But let’s be real for a second…How many chances does someone needto show you who they are? It’s Not a Second Chance If Nothing Changed A second chance only works when something is…

You Don’t Miss Them… You Miss the Feeling They Gave You Let’s be honest for a second.You think you miss them.You replay the memories.You wonder what they’re doing.But if you really sit with it…It’s not them you miss.It’s how they made you feel. It Was the Feeling, Not the Person You miss:The attentionThe excitementThe connection (or what felt like connection)The way they made you feel…

If They Wanted To… They Would (And That’s the Truth) Let’s talk about a phrase people hear all the time…“If they wanted to, they would.”And for some reason, people try to argue with it.Make excuses for it.Soften it.But the truth?It’s actually simple. Effort Is a Choice People make time for what matters to them.Not when it’s convenient.Not when they’re bored.Not when they feel like…

You Didn’t Fall for Them… You Fell for Their Potential Let’s be honest for a second.Have you ever stayed longer than you should have…because you saw what someone could be instead of who they actually were?Yeah. Same. The Version of Them You Loved Wasn’t Real You didn’t fall for who they showed you consistently.You fell for:The way they were in the beginningThe promises they madeThe glimpses of…

You’re Not “Too Much”… You’re Just Used to Being Undervalued Let’s talk about something a lot of people feel… but don’t always say out loud.Have you ever been told you’re “too much”?Too emotional.Too affectionate.Too expressive.Too confident.Too needy.Let me stop you right there.You are not too much.You’ve just been in spaces where you weren’t valued properly. The Problem Isn’t You When…

Why Confidence Is the Most Attractive Thing About You Let’s clear something up real quick.It’s not your body.It’s not your outfit.It’s not even your looks.The thing that makes people stop, look, and remember you?Confidence. Attraction Starts Before You Say a Word You ever notice how some people walk into a room and immediately get attention?It’s not because they’re “perfect.”It’s because…

Stop Settling for Bare Minimum Love Let’s have a real conversation.Somewhere along the way, people started confusing effort with “too much.”Texting back?Too much.Wanting consistency?Too much.Expecting respect?Too much.No.That’s not too much…That’s the bare minimum. When Did the Bare Minimum Become Acceptable? We live in a time where:Inconsistent communication is normalizedMixed signals are…

Let’s talk about something real for a minute.That craving you feel sometimes?The one that hits out of nowhere…The one that makes you want to be close to someone…The one that isn’t just about sex, even if it feels like it at first…That’s not just physical.That’s emotional.And a lot of people confuse the two. It’s Not Always About Sex Sometimes what you’re craving isn’t touch… it’s…