The Wanting Comes In Waves

oh to be grabbed and kissed like they're craving every inch of you

can i come over and feel safe in your presence?

we don't even have to have sex just pin me down and kiss me for thirty to forty minutes and i will be in heaven

morning sex and it’s loving and they’re right in your ear the whole time telling how good and sweet you are when you first wake up

the problem with being touch starved is once you start being able to touch again it is in no way an instant fix, all that touch i missed just kept building up and now i gotta fight back that deficit

Engaging in kink is a form of being vulnerable—regardless of your role—and vulnerability should always be treated with a certain amount of reverence. It’s an honor and a privilege to be able to play with people, not a right or a given.

"you smell good" okay now bite me and tell me I taste good

i let them hit because they were honest about their intentions and created a healthy, open line of communication between us that made me feel safe and secure enough to let them see me in one of my most vulnerable states

One of the absolute best parts of polyamory is talking with your partners partners abt how much you love your partner and how cool she is. Unbeatable experience

Life is too short to have sex you don’t like. Be gross, be weird, don’t do it at all if it’s not for you. Expand your definition of sex. Remove yourself from things that don’t feel good. Find positions and kinks and toys that work for you. Don’t let anyone tell you that sex needs to happen a certain way or happen at all. Orgasms are optional. Involving your genitals is optional. Everything is optional. Do what you like to do and respect what other people do and don’t like to do. Good sex doesn’t make you feel bad about yourself. You deserve to have pleasure in ways that work for you.

the concept of someone you’re into masturbating to the thought of you really is just one of the absolute hottest things ever

does anyone else get insanely romantically frustrated? like i know sexual frustration is a thing which happens to me a lot but sometimes i get super intense cravings for soft kisses or make out sessions or cuddling naps or things like that and it’s way more frustrating to me than sexual cravings

i have GOT to unwillingly serve as someone's awakening to the fact that they're an unrepentant sadist

After all, why wouldn't you wanna have sex with an evil version of yourself