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since i’ve been a bit un-inspired and bored i thought about a little game!

i bet on stuff. be it with people or with myself, i just love going:

"bet...."

for example:

i bet x is going to call me tonight i bet x is going to happen tomorrow

a month ago or something i decided i'd make a sp constantly think of me so i simply affirmed "sp is always thinking of me, sp can't get me out of their mind" a few times. now i've never looked for 3d confirmation for this because it wasn't even something i could check, i don't even see them that much. i just lived my life knowing it was true. but the next time i saw them, about two weeks ago, the first thing they told me was "i've been thinking about you a lot lately"... imagine my face.

the funny thing is that i reaffirmed a few times during this month, not because i think you have to affirm many times to manifest things (you don't!!!) but because my mind just automatically goes "oh i love how they think about me all the time". that's living in the end for you i guess.

from something that happened today:

i was minding my own business and my mind wandered a bit and i very casually said: “what if sp told me [sentence], let’s see what happens”. i didn’t really think much of it, it was casual stream of thoughts. half an hour later i went out for grocery shopping and i met said sp (which is already rare enough) and they told me exactly what i imagined they’d say. word by word.

this isn’t the first time this happens to me, it actually happens pretty often.

it’s kind of a mix between affirming and visualizing to me.

similar affirmations starters:

what if…

it would be funny if…

it would be nice if…

let’s see what happens if…

it would be interesting if…

manifested a high grade for today's exam!!

small context: this is one of the two hardest exams in my major and the professor is literally known in the whole department for being straight up the devil. i'm not even going to lie i was nervous cause the vibe in the class while he was questioning the other students was super tense.

i wanted to manifest a good grade even though i had definitely not studied nearly enough for such an exam (it's a pure math one) BUT!

my assumption about my perfect self is that i'm good at math, that i understand and remember things quickly and easily and ever since i've started embodying it there was a huge positive change

i assumed this exam specifically would go well, i literally went around telling people "there's no way this exam can go bad. it'll go well because it has no other choice". they thought i was being overconfident but that's their problem lmao

✧ it's a good day and we're in a good mood

✧ everything will go according to plan

✧ we're getting those good grades

✧ we're seeing that specific person and they're gonna make us so happy

✧ we're prettier than yesterday?? omg

✧ we look so good in our outfit

✧ we're in our desired house and it's so pretty

✧ we're getting lots of compliments!!

✧ exams are so easy for me

✧ i know everything there's to know for this exam

✧ i never get anxious for exams

✧ i always get good grades

✧ i have perfect memory

isn't the world so beautiful? isn't life amazing? romanticize your life!! make your own little breakfast and be extremely excited about it!! smile at that dog in the street and pet them, because they're adorable and cute!! look up and see how pretty the sky is!! feel the wind through your lungs!! smile at that child on the subway!! feel like you're the main character in a cliché movie when you get caught in the rain!! listen to that old man who decided to tell you about his younger days and smile because you know it makes him happy to be listened to!! study for that exam as if you're a hogwarts student!!

i personally believe taking note of things i manifest empowers me!! they make me feel excited, it makes manifesting so fun and reminds me how powerful i am

for example i have two small success stories from today:

last night i told myself i'd see a sp i haven't seen in a while and with whom i don't have any kind of contact, they live an hour way from my house too, and this morning i saw them!!

also as i was reviewing for tomorrow's exam, i thought to myself it'd be nice if it was moved to friday and guess what happened three hours later? the professor sent an email saying the exam is moved to friday

✧ today is a great day

✧ everyone treats me nicely

✧ i am confident in my looks and my actions

✧ everything i want to happen, happens

✧ i'm full of luck today

✧ nothing can go wrong

✧ i'm rested and full of energy

so i've read this book called the alter ego effect by todd herman, and thought it could be a fun way to improve self concept and consequentially manifest really easily. i've been using this for a while and it works really well for me.

we all unconsciously embody different personas depending on the situation and the people we are around, so why not use it on purpose?

the alter ego is simply your perfect desired self, the version of yourself that embodies your good self concept that's within you.

here's what i did:

first of all, i made a list of words and concepts that reminded me of my perfect self. remember that self concept is not only about looks or self esteem. it's also that, but it's also your beliefs, how you view the world and so on. i also made a pinterest board out of fun (and i still update it sometimes!). you don't have to do all this, you can just imagine it.

here's a little prompt list that might help you:

- what do you look like? - what kind of person are you? your beliefs? your likes? dislikes? - what do you value? what/who do you admire? your dreams?

remember that you don't have to be super detailed and stress over it. your subconscious knows, whether you can write it down in detail or not.

now that you've done that, you can find a little token, aka an object, or a word, or even a concept that reminds you of your alter ego. it can be for example a necklace you own, or any object. it can be an idea. it can be multiple things.

for me for example, i have a necklace i own, a color, and a drink.**

basically what happens is that every time you see the object, or hear the word, or anything, you'll be automatically, unconsciously reminded of your alter ego, aka your perfect self. that's basically affirming without even thinking about it. you'll start unconsciously embodying your perfect self without even noticing.

** for me, one of my tokens is something uncommon for me to see or talk about. it happens sometimes, and i think that reinforces even more the connection to my perfect self. this is just an advice from what works for me!!

what about tough days? everyone has bad days and that's okay. you can conosciously think about your alter ego. if something comes up suddenly, you can ask yourself, "what would my perfect self do?" and do exactly that. that's persisting with your new story.

sometimes you just have a bad day though and that's okay. if you react to the 3d or act in a way only your old story self would do, that's okay. don't punish yourself over it. you can be upset, have a moment of doubt, and then tell yourself that what you desire is meant for you so there's nothing to worry about. it's already yours.

but how does this help with manifesting?

remember that a good self concept is all that's needed to manifest. that version of yourself already has all your desires. once you embody and believe you already are your perfect self, then you already have all your desires. you don't even have to consciously voice them out. you can still use other methods like affirming or visualizing, but you don't have to (i still do, cause they simply put me in a good mood!!)

now here's a few success stories i got through this:

a big change of personality

went from brown hair to blonde hair

a motorbike

being good at maths

never gaining weight

never being bothered by the 3d

my bedroom having a specific smell on its own

✧ i'm cheerful, charming and friendly

✧ i get everything i want

✧ i always smell amazing and everyone always compliments me

✧ i'm naturally gentle and everyone loves being around me

✧ i'm a social butterfly

✧ i'm always the prettiest person in the room

✧ i never stress about the outcome because the 3d has no choice but to comform to my desires

so i haven't seen my crush in a few days and i really wanted to see them, since they're the kind of person to kind of go off the radar with no explanation, and we're not even really close so seeing them is kind of random

songs can be so powerful and be a way to unconciously affirm!!

1. namana by lay

man i can't even begin to explain how much this song hypes me up. i'm just gonna drop a tiny bit of the lyrics and you'll know why. "no time for stressin', just be your best and you'll have whatever you want"

2. levitating by dua lipa

i can't really explain it but it's got the right vibes for my self concept. the fact that it's also literally everywhere helps lmao y'all should see me acting like the main character i am blasting this in the cafe i work at.

3. meet you there by 5sos

so this is more about letting go. it's easy to become obsessed with what you want to manifest, especially a sp. this whole "if we're meant to, i'll meet you there" helps me letting go, live my life and get in the state of knowing it's coming to the 3d.

4. nice to meet ya by niall horan

5. shut up and dance with me by walk the moon

6. magic by one direction

i'm putting these 3 songs together because they work the same way on me. any kind of love song works this way actually, i'm using specifically these cause they're catchy and put me in a good mood too. basically what you wanna do is listen to them like they're written about you. stop relating to the singer and start relating to the person they're talking about. especially if you're manifesting a sp, imagine them listening to these and relate to them thinking of you. i hope this is clear cause it's hard to explain.

7. singing in the rain by simple plan

this song for me is the "ignore 3d" kinda song. "storm clouds are circling around but i won't let that shit drag me down".

8. paper rings by taylor swift

it's The love manifesting song idc.