hard liquor mixed with a bit of intellect

Drag me if you want but I feel like a major problem with liberal/Western gender ideology is that it’s so focused on aesthetics. Like “Look at me, I’m defying gender norms by wearing a dress/suit/makeup/whatever.” Like okay but what about defying gender norms via the breakdown of behaviour? What about acknowledging things like male entitlement, aggression, perceived weakness and submissiveness, the expectation of women to perform emotional labour etc. If we don’t actively work to break down oppressive and dangerous gender stereotypes, what is the point? Defying gender norms and identities can’t just be limited to clothing, hair, and makeup

introverts be like i cant wait to wear my big sweater and eat a book

depression meal: eating your first meal of the day at 6pm

‪Honest, raw, real communication changes everything. Get it out. Unburden yourself. Say what you feel.‬

women wear suits better than men and thats just a cold hard fact

girl thighs………… exquisite………………..

why isn’t anyone allowed to be wrong anymore? it’s okay to be wrong. no one should be terrified of every tiny little mistake they might make. being wrong, and realizing you were wrong, is how you learn and grow and change.

be your own sun and be your own moon

I need to like, lint roll myself. On a physical and emotional level

you have made so much more progress than you realize. you will get past these bumps in the road, the bad days, the heartbreaks, and find you are stronger than you were before.