witchcraft is self-care

another decade has passed and guess who’s still here? the moon. she’s always been here and she’ll always be she’s a Loyal friend to all of us say thank u moon

growth is sometimes a lonely process

I was already on board with his sweet wholesome open-to-love-and-nurturing heart but I was fully unprepared for getting to that last tweet and seeing how off the hook HOT dude is

CAT DAD IS BACK

aww, the kids grow up so fast. ;-;

HHHHHHHH I LOVE CAT DAD!

This is, by far, the single most adorable fucking thing I have ever seen. 

there are people you haven’t met yet who will love you

To all the people feeling worse than usual because of Valentines Day –  You’re important, you’re lovable, and I’m glad you’re here.

look, tomorrow you will wake up and feel a bit better, a bit calmer. you are going to figure things out eventually, it dosnt have to all be done tonight. take a deep breath, relax your shoulders, and get some rest. you will manage.

This is so true but I still wonder why it is so hard to stop this kind of destructive behavior. There seems to be (at least to me) some sort of comfort in telling myself these awful things that I don’t quite understand. It feels „safer“ to talk to myself this way somehow?

Yeah i totally feel you! that’s a normal response i guess, it has happened to me too. It’s like that just because this is what your brain is used to: years after years of self destructive thoughts, it just became the normality. So when you consciously start to think the opposite (like “i’m worthy of love”) the brain will be “????? No that’s weird we usually believe the opposite” and you can feel a lil uneasy too. It takes time, patience and constancy but believe me, you can get there!

My therapist always talked about the brain working with certain neural paths that are simply used more often than others and how important it is to practice things over and over again for new paths to be build. I guess this applies here too, it makes sense! Thanks for elaborating, it’s a very inspiring message that this worked for you!

This is so true but I still wonder why it is so hard to stop this kind of destructive behavior. There seems to be (at least to me) some sort of comfort in telling myself these awful things that I don’t quite understand. It feels „safer“ to talk to myself this way somehow?