There is a difference between trying and being. I think a lot of you struggling with this lifestyle are trying to manifest something. But that’s not how it works.

Trying indicates you do not have, or you are not. Nevertheless, the name of God is I AM, not “I will be.”

Knowing this, we must know from what premise to imagine. That is AFTER the desire is fulfilled. The word fulfilled always used to confuse me when starting out, but basically: after the desire is accomplished/achieved.

I used to spend a lot of time in my Imagination trying to create my desires. However, creation is finished. View your desires as rooms in a mansion within yourself. All are waiting for you to walk in, and occupy it. This is being.

-waking up with a new face/body/height/everything

-people that wronged me becoming fat and ugly

-dating a hot millionaire

-manifesting anything overnight

-moving to NYC alone at 15

-changing my whole face

-revising my parents to be rich

-my fictional boyfriend in real life

-being tall even with short parents

-changing my whole appearance

-becoming a model for img models

-getting a penthouse for free

-random people spoiling me

-becoming rich

-changing bone structure

-becoming popular

-shifting anytime

I always have so much to say when it comes to advice, but I’ll keep it simple for now.

Since the beginning, I have always geared my content towards confidence in and out of LOA discourse and how you should be putting yourself first because that mindset changed me long before I stumbled upon this community. I’ve told the story before about how my relationship with confidence helped me make sense out of LOA, it was always about choosing and being. I became confident by choosing to be confident and it’s how I remained unmoved by people disliking me and related interactions. I knew and chose myself before the world.

Your life is yours. You need to be the one to choose your life for you because if you don’t, something or somebody else will. When you make it about what another thinks about you or what you should be doing, you’re giving away your life to them and it will never truly be yours.

Have the courage to walk away from things that aren’t up to your standards because you know you deserve better. Don’t settle for what doesn’t make you happy. Whether it’s a person or a situation, don’t be afraid to leave it behind and seek better for yourself.

Have firm boundaries and set the example for the love and appreciation you deserve to receive. Love from others starts with love for self. Don’t accept what you don’t deserve.

I know at some point in our time navigating this new information, we all feel a small sense of fear that this is all fake. Even if that had been the case for me, I never would have returned to the person I used to be before discovering Neville because I love who I am now. I love being happy and optimistic. I love knowing things can get better and I don’t need to be miserable. I love not dwelling in self-made anxieties and hypothetical worst case scenarios. I love feeling inspired by other people to be as grand as them. I love going after what makes me happy without limitations.

A life full of fear is not a life, it’s a prison. Even though I was confident for the most part, there was a part of me that yearned for the confidence to make decisions about my life, LOA saved me from that. I used to be someone clouded with self doubt and pessimism, I felt nervous about taking “risks” because what if I didn’t work out then what? I always believed I had to have a pragmatic approach towards every decision I made and have a plan B, C and D just in case. I’m so grateful to have discovered the law of assumption that has liberated me from a cage I sculpted with my own hands. I write because want that for you guys as well. I’ve changed so much because of the law of assumption and not just from the actual practice of it, my entire mindset has skyrocketed.

something i have seen quite often on this site whether that is in asks or just in general is that we learn that we are gods of our reality and after that fact we treat ourselves differently. more harsher, more colder.

just because we are gods, doesnt mean we are immune to feeling bad. you can still be god and feel hurt, upset & frustrated— those emotions dont make you appear ‘less than’ a god. it just shows that you are still human.

please treat yourselves as you would a friend— please treat yourself kinder, more lovingly, please live for the present and find the beauty in your daily life. you don’t need to hold out on yourself because you’re currently manifesting something.

just because you have made a mistake or reacted to the 3D or whatever it is you have done, it doesn’t make you a bad manifestor it doesn’t make you less than a god and i really hope you understand that.

this mindset that you have to demonise yourself or treat yourself colder because you’ve made a mistake is something you should try to abandon. its not worth your mental health.

creation is finished. your desires are yours RIGHT NOW. no one’s taking them away from you.

time does NOT exist. it is a man-made concept, it’s not based. you are always living in the NOW, what happened in the “past” and what is going to happen in the “future” doesn’t matter.

you’re doing everything correctly. no ‘if, but, how’ allowed to question. you are on the right track. keep it going.

once you assumed your desires as facts, you created your new reality and started living in it that very moment.

your mind could NEVER betray you. allow yourself to feel your emotions and live them out. rant about whatever it is that’s concerning you. as long as you BELIEVE in yourself, you have your desires locked in.

the 3d is NOT the enemy. it’s a mirror. and it always reflects imagination (=what you have faith in). it can’t fool you or disobey to you.

you choose for yourself. and you chose to live the life that you always deserved to live. if you have it in imagination, it’s a fact.

if you’re struggling in the 3d right now, just know that you are not alone. and you are heard and loved. if you’re reading this, i just want to let you know that you’re an amazing human being and that you are strong. i love you ♡

Hey OP, thank you for the compliment. It truly means a lot and keeps this blog going. 🫶

Perhaps SATs isn’t the method for you! You could try something totally different such as robotic affirming, (I might try my hand into making a post on that), but here is what I do for most desires: I’m awake interacting with the 3D, and I just change the 4D: imagination. I imagine something that implies my desire is already fulfilled, and I stay there (repetition is key for any skill in life) until I feel satisfied. So maybe try that!

“Outer reforms are useless if the inner state is not changed.” -Neville Goddard, Awakened Imagination.

For not being relaxed, my next point below might be part of your reason, but I think it also correlates with my last ask: You do not feel safe enough to feel relaxed. You have to feel those emotions and let them be.

I’m noticing something in the way you speak about desire. And I believe it is the key to why you are not relaxed. You are TRYING to make the desire so. You are focused on the HOW, and not the end state.

On trying to make the desire so, here is the difference between most manifestors.

Manifestor A: I am imagining to get X in a future date and someday be it -> they continue to imagine for a future date and someday be it.

Manifestor B: I am imagining that I am X -> they continue to be X, and it materializes into their physical world.

Start being the person within your Imagination who has the desired appearance, how do they act? How do they feel?

For your last point, this is a test of discipline. Neville Goddard said it was harder than any physical labor out in the fields. You have to be disciplined. You have to persist in being what you desire.