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for context, in the stellanova au, originally felix and calhoun did get married and simply opened up their marriage to include juno. I then decided I didn't like this approach and changed the AU to have felix and calhoun have an ambiguous relationship status at the end of the first movie so that there was no conflict between juno and calhoun during the events of stellanova.

tldr: is julix disrespectful to calhoun. sources are unsure

obviously juno and felix are romantic partners but unlike mitsuya and luckymight, I don't really describe them as "boyfriends" or "husbands" and they've kind of always had this inherent scandalous nature that has kind of made me uncomfortable recently?

however lately I've felt really guilty over this? calhoun already has less character development than the other three and felix is a huge part of it, so cancelling him out feels like. inherently minimizing of her arc in the movie.

technically it's disney's fault for having a large part of her story revolve around her relationship with two men and I certainly have opinions on that but I don't want to be one of those people who diminishes a female character who gets in the way of their gay ships, but I also don't want to feel like my gay ship is inherently "scandalous" and immoral.

I also don't want my criticism of her character arc to sound like it comes from a place of malice or bias. I think the storyline of her learning to trust others could have been better executed than centering it around her relationship with a man and I also happen to ship another character with that man.

am I overreacting in how much thought I'm putting into this? would it be dismissive and disrespectful to calhoun and her character arc to keep her in the stellanova au but not in a relationship with felix? does this matter literally at all

for context, in the stellanova au, originally felix and calhoun did get married and simply opened up their marriage to include juno. I then decided I didn't like this approach and changed the AU to have felix and calhoun have an ambiguous relationship status at the end of the first movie so that there was no conflict between juno and calhoun during the events of stellanova.

tldr: is julix disrespectful to calhoun. sources are unsure

obviously juno and felix are romantic partners but unlike mitsuya and luckymight, I don't really describe them as "boyfriends" or "husbands" and they've kind of always had this inherent scandalous nature that has kind of made me uncomfortable recently?

however lately I've felt really guilty over this? calhoun already has less character development than the other three and felix is a huge part of it, so cancelling him out feels like. inherently minimizing of her arc in the movie.

technically it's disney's fault for having a large part of her story revolve around her relationship with two men and I certainly have opinions on that but I don't want to be one of those people who diminishes a female character who gets in the way of their gay ships, but I also don't want to feel like my gay ship is inherently "scandalous" and immoral.

I also don't want my criticism of her character arc to sound like it comes from a place of malice or bias. I think the storyline of her learning to trust others could have been better executed than centering it around her relationship with a man and I also happen to ship another character with that man.

am I overreacting in how much thought I'm putting into this? would it be dismissive and disrespectful to calhoun and her character arc to keep her in the stellanova au but not in a relationship with felix? does this matter literally at all