Trashiest Red Panda

Cis people prefer to see us in our most passing forms, and we tend to only want to be seen by cis people in our most passing terms. We’re usually only accepted by cis people in our most cis passing and gender comforming.

“Trans women are women, look at this trans woman on estrogen” might be a nice liberal sentiment, but ignores that the trans woman not hrt is just as much a woman as the trans woman on it. This goes for trans men. For non-binary people.

And we are still valid in our sexualities, who we are attracted to and date, even when not hrt. Trans straight women not hrt are still straight women. Same with the trans lesbian, the straight trans man, or the gay trans man. A bisexual trans woman not hrt dating another woman, whether that woman cis or trans, is in a same gender relationship. I say this because often times we tend to only wanna portray trans people in relationships once they’ve gone on hrt.

Hrt isn’t a requirement to gain respect. To be represented. We shouldn’t have to be at our most passing, our most gender conforming, our most conventionally attractive. It’s hard enough if you’re a trans person with dysphoria or who face misgendering, but then you have it so only the trans people who have transitioned are the ones who can earn respect, who get to be the face of trans people, and you think “I don’t look like that.” It can feel very alienating.

lesbian

gay

bisexual

transgender

queer

pansexual

demisexual

ace

hopeless romantics

cis-men

cis-women

non binary folks

the whole spectrum etc…

My ace ass: 

My bi ass:

my pan ass:

My lesbian ass:

My gay ass:

My trans ass:

Weather - What do you love most?

Dove - How do you express love?

Friendship Bracelet - What does friendship mean to you?

Loveseat- Describe your ideal house

Record Player - Love songs or breakup songs?

Stargaze - Celebrity crush?

Planter - Do you have a green thumb?

Linen - Do you prefer being friends with someone before starting a romantic relationship with them or starting straight into love?

Hot Cocoa - Three things you love about yourself?

Valentine - Do you like pda?

Succulent - What are you looking forward to?

Bath bomb - What is the best form of self care?

Roadtrip - Where is the farthest you’ve been from home?

Brown Sugar - What is making your heart warm today?

Pearls - Do you want to get married?

Seaside - Ideal date?

Luna Moth - City or country?

Velvet - What is your style?

Cupcake - Are you in love?

Romcom - Is your story a comedy or tragedy?

He defers to the wisdom of his mother, his sister, his general, his love, the women around him. He was a sweet and loving son who expressed and enjoyed physical and emotional tenderness from his father.

He’s proud but doesn’t ever disrespect anybody. He values family, affection and emotion and expresses it freely, but still retains the poise of a king.