Doing fine

- I love myself

- I choose myself

- I come first

- I don’t need someone else to love me

- I don’t need to love someone who doesn’t love me

- unrequited love ain’t my thing

- I don’t need someone else to complete me

- I am whole on my own

- I don’t give what isn’t reciprocated

- I love myself unconditionally

- I forgive myself

- I take care of myself

- I deserve love

- I am worthy

- I will find the love I deserve eventually

- I walk away from what doesn’t serve me

- I don’t wait for anyone

- I don’t put my life on hold for anyone

- I will stay strong and move forward

- I will accomplish what I want to accomplish

- I got this

- I am enough

Positive affirmations are a great way to reframe persistent negative thinking. I tend to find generic affirmations ineffective, so I decided to come up with a way to create affirmations that are more meaningful to me. 

I use affirmations when I have a lot of negative thoughts occupying my mind. The affirmation-creating strategy I’m about to describe serves a dual purpose. The first step releases the negative emotions, while the second step turns the negativity into positivity. 

First, take a sheet of paper and write down all the negative thoughts you’ve been dealing with. Hopefully, by expressing your thoughts by writing them down, you would have released some negativity. 

Next, set the list aside for a few minutes. Then, with a fresh outlook, take a look at your list of negative thoughts again. Try to pretend that you’re your therapist, parent, or friend, and think about what they would say if you told them what you were thinking. How would they try to turn those negative thoughts around? 

Next, underline or highlight key statements that could be turned into positive affirmations, and write those statements somewhere that you can see them daily. 

Make an effort to repeat these statements to yourself, and in time you will be able to sense a shift in your thinking.

6 Signs You’re Manifesting Your Dream Life

1. Coincidences - everything happens for a reason. You are noticing the meaning behind each interaction - every person you meet, every step you take & everything that happens in the world. You create the reason for why things happen and use it to help you create the life you want to live.

2. 11:11 - number sychnroncities. Noticing repeat numbers like 11:11 or 22:22 is a sign that you’re in sync with that which you’re trying to manifest. These number synchronicities are a wink from the universe - you acknowledge these and continue on your path knowing that you’re on the right track.

3. Deja Vu - a glitch in the matrix. When you notice the feeling of “I’ve been here before” - this is a clear sign that you’re creating your reality. These are known as glitches in the matrix because you’re no longer a victim of circumstance - you’re using your power to create your reality.

4. Feelings - your inner GPS. You know that you how you feel is directly impacted by what you do - so you choose to do what makes you happy. You feel more at peace with yourself, the conflicts of the past and future that once plagued you have settled because you’ve released all resistance to them.

5. Positivity - the glass is not half full, it’s overflowing. You know that you create your reality - impossible is nothing. Your cup is overflowing with positive energy because you know you have the power to create the life you want to live. This attracts others who want to drink from your abundant fountain and you welcome them because you know you get what you give.

6. Results - your dreams are becoming reality. You know that how you think & feel creates your world so you pay more attention to the inside than the outside. Physical manifestations such as money, relationships & material things are signs that you’re creating the life you want to live. However the most important results are the ones that cannot be seen - your inner peace, mental health & emotional state.

Create your dream life with your actions.