hey its igrab! you might know me from AO3, or maybe livejournal back in the day. here’s some stuff about me!
in my late 30s and still weird
nonbinary (they/them)
asexual, arospec (microlabels here)
irl married to the best person ever, ace4ace nb4nb but we still call each other wife bc 🤷
i have cats, rats, and a bunny
no marketable skills to speak of just a whole basket of disorders. adhd, autism, bipolar, and fibromyalgia are the ones i yap abt most
libra - metal dragon - 9w1 - INFJ - fuck jkr but ravenclaw
currently rotating: hoshiumi kourai (blorbo) and hiruhoshi, hq!!, ywpd, wha, gachiakuta, jjk, wind breaker, dunmeshi
non-fandom special interests: asexuality and gender, architecture (esp chinese), historical fashion, overpasses, fiber arts, rats, rabbits, the roman empire, linguistics and linguistic anthropology, astronomy, DID and other dissociative disorders, psychology of child abuse
important tags:
#organizer - lists i'll need later
#igrab yaps - filter this if you don't need my thoughts on anything and everything 24/7
#igrab writes - official fic promo posts
#seagull boys - anything even tangentially related to hoshiumi kourai, hirugami sachirou, or kamomedai
• what i blog about in detail •
ive been in fandom since i was a wee baby trading pokemon cards and making sailor moon ocs. i went to my first anime con when i was 13. there’s a lot of shit i like!! lets break it down.
CURRENTLY ROTATING
haikyuu: hoshiumi is my blorbo and hiruhoshi is my otp. my other favs are komori, bokuto, kita, and noya. i like multishipping but i do have my preferred pairing setup which is MOSTLY normal. (i’ll just die on the hill that osakita should be the normal ship. seriously.)
fallen london: started playing recently and ofc i need a character for each ambition. so its half gameplay reactions (especially Rats) and half figuring my characters out. lemme know if you want me to tag spoilers or put them under a cut.
yowamushi pedal: just did a rewatch so they’re spinning around in there
dungeon meshi: idk why i thought i wouldn’t get obsessed w thistle he literally has tan skin white hair i’m so easy. anyway HIM and mithrun and kabumisu and chilaios and—the only pairing im not a big fan of is laios/kabru but no hate! ship what you like!
hoyoverse: i don’t blog abt it often but i play all three of the big ones, and ive played hi3 a little. my favs are baizhu (genshin), welt (hsr), and lycaon (zzz). going any deeper would be a whole post of its own!
final fantasy xii: for the game’s 20th anniversary there’s a zine project i’m doing as well as a randomised job playthrough, so i’m back in dalmasca babey! block #ffxii20thrandomjobrun if it gets annoying
OTHER STUFF THAT COMES UP OFTEN
writing and writing related memes and posts
queer stuff esp acespec
fiber arts and other forms of art
chinese architecture/fashion
rat pics
FOREVER FANDOMS THAT ILL NEVER QUIT
Sports Anime (knb, daiya, days, + more)
Okami (currently replaying)
Final Fantasy (IV, IX, XII, XV are my favs)
Stardew Valley (excited for 1.7!)
Animal Crossing
Pokemon (starter reveals!)
Kingdom Hearts
Sky / Journey
Dragon Age (all of them. everything.)
Elder Scrolls (online, skyrim, tabletop)
Danmei (meatbun, priest, mxtx and more)
Magnus Chase
The Hobbit (and lotr in general)
Stargate (esp sga but i like sg1 too)
DEAD/HIBERNATING FANDOMS (still important)
DC (relatively speaking)
PJO (behind and not motivated to catch up)
Sherlock Holmes (i still love the books and ritchie films dgmw but sherlock burnt me out)
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when you reach enough amount of followers, you will encounter entitled people who think they can tell you what you can and can’t post on your own blog. always ignore those cunts
Imagine being the gays at a pride event in 2004 living their lives when someone grabs the microphone and announces to the room that Ronald Reagan was pronounced dead. Can you even imagine the hype, the celebration, the pure elation
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For those who don't know: Ikumi Nakamura is the woman who was senior artist on Bayonetta, and designed the titular character along with Hideki Kamiya. Their greatest moment of bonding was over their insistence that Bayonetta keep her glasses on at all times.
Nakamura cannot go to horny jail. She is the warden.
Further context: Durham city council (Reform UK) cut funding and support for Pride. The Durham Miner's Association and other trade unions raised enough money for Durham Pride 2026 to go ahead - a direct call back to when Lesbian and Gays Support the Miners (LGSM) raised money for mining communities when Margaret Thatcher seized union funding during the miner strikes of 1984-85.
At the 1985 Labour party meet, the motion to support LGBT rights as a party was passed due to a block vote from mining unions.
Stephen Guy, the chair of the Durham Miners’ Association, said that when it became apparent Durham Pride was under threat, he took it upon himself to “encourage the trade union movement to step up and do the right thing, and stand shoulder to shoulder with the LGBT+ community […] They not only raised funds for us, but came to our communities, uplifted our spirits when they were down, and showed their solidarity.”
As Aromantic Visibility Day (June 5th) approaches this year, friendly reminder from an aroace: it's Aromantic Visibility Day, not "Aroace" Visibility Day! Not all aromantics are also asexual — there are aromantics who are allosexual (aroallos for short), aromantics who don't separately label their sexual orientation at all, and aromantics whose sexual orientation doesn't fit into an ace/allo binary, as well as likely even more aros who don't fit into "aroace" for even more reasons — and all of them are equally included in Aromantic Visibility Day, because they are equally aromantic! In fact, those aros who aren't ace are disproportionately erased and in need of visibility, even more than aroaces are (which is really saying something, because aroace visibility itself is already terrible), so including them in Aromantic Visibility Day is vital, and using the correct name for the occasion instead of calling it an "aroace day" is a start.
Overall: again, speaking as an aroace myself, we aroaces will not be offended if you just call Aromantic Visibility Day the thing it is actually called! I care about sharing this upcoming day with my fellow aros, so stop excluding them, even accidentally! We aroaces celebrate this day but it is not for us exclusively!
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Average Deep Space Nine A plot: "What are you willing to sacrifice for the chance at a better world? Who are you willing to hurt? Will the pain you cause now outweigh the peace that it might bring? When both choices are bad, and you do what you think is best, can you live with yourself after? Could you live with yourself if you made the opposite choice?"
Average Deep Space Nine B plot: "What do we do with all this hot sauce!?"
