Poet.Writer.Author.

If a man hasn’t asked you to move in with him, don’t invite yourself. If he hasn’t made you a key don’t ask him to make you one. And finally, if he hasn’t asked you to marry him, don’t waste your time hinting. When it’s in his heart to do ALL or any of these things, he will.

Look, some people can be selfish and cruel. They’ll stay in a relationship with you knowing very well they don’t love you or want the same things you’re working so hard toward for the sake of your marriage/relationship.They‘ll make empty promises and make you believe they’re in it for the long run all because they are benefiting from being you. They never stop to wonder how inhumane it is to keep you from someone who will be honest and in love with you.

Stop using God as justification for why you continue to chase after a man or woman who wants nothing to do with you. They are not your answered prayer and God did not send them your way. When it’s time, he will place the right people in your life.

Stop fooling yourself into thinking that he’s yours when he hasn’t shown you a high level of commitment. Let his actions prove to your heart that he’s in it for more than just sex.

Sometimes we have to learn to let people go and make their own mistakes no matter how much we love them.

It’s hard to move on when you have a million questions none of which they’ll answer— and it’s almost impossible to find peace when your heart can’t seem to understand why when you did everything you could. Why when your love was good?

Don’t underestimate the power of prayer when it comes to Love. No matter how many nights you spend at the clubs, or how premium your dating service website is, if God isn’t in the center of it all, it will not work out.

Sometimes you’re just not ready for relationship and that’s okay. There’s no need to force things or let someone pressure you into one. You’re allowed to take your time and also give yourself the opportunity to be alone and at peace with the sound of your own heart beating.

If you need to finish school, lose weight, get your finances in order or whatever your goal may be, go ahead and reach for it. Don’t stop or place your life on hold out of fear that you’ll lose that someone you’re interested in. If they are meant to be in your life, they’ll root for you, not hold you back.

I’m just at that point where I know with absolute certainty that it’s time to let it all go. My heart, wants what it’s used to while my soul and my spirit are urging me to move on.To end this chapter and prepare to embark on a new one. Greater opportunities and moments await me—but I cannot experience them if I continue going back and forth with people and to situations that clearly no longer fulfill my desires to be an extraordinary human being.I just know.

Look, sometimes no matter what you do or how far you go for them, you’re never going to be enough. But please understand that, that has nothing to do with you. It’s not about you not being enough or inadequate—it’s about them not having peace within. It’s about them not loving themselves enough to see the beauty in the fact that you’re relentless in your way of loving. It’s about them being too blind to see the beautifulness in your courage to fight for someone you love and care about. So whatever it is they’re going through—stop torturing yourself about it. Stop putting yourself down and questioning your worth simply because someone didn’t have the ability to see the love in you. And trust me when I tell you—once you learn to let it all go—you’ll soon be blessed with the kind of love and person in your life who will cherish all of you and everything you have to offer. That’s just a fact. @iamtonio1987

Moving on doesn’t mean we automatically stop loving them. It just means we finally understand that it’s not a good fit and we need to learn to love them differently and in some cases, from a distance. Moving on is stepping out on faith and trusting that the next chapter and journey in life will be even better than the last.

Let him choose you willingly. The moment you start pressuring someone into being with you or forming a relationship which they are not 100 % sure of, you’ll always have questions and doubts. The one meant for you will arrive when they are supposed to and will stay.