Confessions of a Hypergamous Woman

This is a blog dedicated to giving women the opportunity to express all musings, secrets, observations, and questions about hypergamy, dating, leveling up, self-improvement, race, class, education, and more.

What do you guys think of entering high society as a preference? Or the whole thing about being the 'good' black girl. I don't mind if I'm being honest. Success is the goal and I'm not overly uptight.

I want to hear peoples thoughts on this- a lot of countries/peoples and societies are racist doesn’t that affect the upper class set. Like some of these old money family make their money from slavery are they really willing to embrace WoC

the real og hypergamy/sw blogs from back in like 2016 were unmatched. this new generation is mostly fake and regurgitating stuff from back in the day in a new format.

if you don’t like anons asking super invasive questions just don’t answer/delete them. modern problems have modern solutions guys. y’all are too damn smart to keep doing this bs.

I love that more BW are into hypergamy because I know that richer men are more confident when it comes to pursuing BW. Your average guy is too insecure with his 3 inch d*ck but when I go into a whole different space, no one can compete with me as a young, beautiful black girl

I think every woman should have a minimum number for the salary/net worth of men they would consider. Add up the cost of the house(s) you want, how much travel, dining out, clothes, children you want and I bet most of us do not require marrying someone with a 20M+ net worth.

Yeah like I said before keep gatekeeping these men and find out. My 'fantasy' is not destroyed with the understanding that forcing a man in a place he does not want to be in will get you hurt. Also you don't have have to be directly enrolled in these prestigious schools, Businesses, or Clubs to get his attention. Please understand that every man is different. Being a luxury brand liason, a babysitter, even a boat attendant on the pier are ways to be in proximity to these men.

Being beautiful and charming will make you a trophy wife but being able to socialize COMFORTABLY with the healthy will help you stay. I suggest most black girls "climb the ladder" and slowly familiarize yourselves with different levels of wealth. The jump from six figure guys to millionaires is easier to handle mentally. Trust me if you're in the hood rn you're not gonna function well if you're suddenly in a room full of millionaires. Start slow. - Cat anon

People make proximity seem like it’s easy but wealthy people gatekeep their spaces, so how are middle class girls going to supposed to network with the wealthy? The answer is good education, prestige jobs and friendships with wealthy women

A lot of bloggers on here have a I’m the only one who can achieve this attitude. Look I don’t believe every girl is going to marry a billionaire or a millionaire but the way some bloggers act you would swear that you can’t really achieve anything because they are the only ones who can

Another important factor is embracing individuality, so much of black hypergamyblr is obsessed with one hyper feminine asthethic but boho, “ghetto”, sporty girls win as well

Let's have some fun ladies!!

I just came across a YouTube channel called "pink book lessons" and the owner bashes women especially black women. It's disheartening and disgusting and it gets worse - she's a black woman who bashes women.

I agree with last anon, some of y'all really stop to put these women on a pedestal and to take their word for ultimate truth because they perfectly know it, they enjoy the attention and openly make fun of y'all but your obsession makes you too blind to see it.

The second y’all can stop putting these women on a pedestal and take everything w a grain of salt is the day you’ll succeed. Reading someone’s blog every day for a crumb of insight into their lives is useless bc it’s without context and you need to be your own person.

Anons are so obsessive and most of them will never even attempt the advice they see on here. The point is to read it, take what applies, see how it works for you, repeat. A popular blog said something about banking on being exotic and now I see anons on a bunch of other blogs asking how to monetize and capitalize off it. Some of this stuff speaks for itself and doesn’t need an extensively detailed post about it. And even if a super detailed post with tips and tricks was provided, it still wouldn’t work for everyone (that is if anyone even bothers going out into the real world and attempting it.)