Something really fun and normal is that being trans and nonbinary is socially alienating not only because you're not a cis person but because so much of people's social behavior is soooo. Segregated lol. Like it feels fucking weird that we lowkey have a Girls Table in the first place like men won't let them speak normally but furthermore kind of drifting into the women's friend subgroup as I'm not one of The Men and still clearly not really being one of them either and getting the "she- sorry, what are your pronouns?" makes me feel like a zoo animal
Observing the "cisgender men" and "everyone else" type Structure occurring in real time at the communist book club meetings and pretending not to see anything because if we start unpacking all of that I'm just going to scream and scream and scream
























