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As human beings, we have the tendency to avoid situations that make us uncomfortable: being around another person who has hurt us, feeling cornered into kindness when we still feel angry, getting over a circumstance that still feels raw and unprocessed.
What if we gave ourselves the space to feel hurt? What would we learn from it? How would our ability to forgive change for the better?
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Every little bit of good helps.
Awareness of someone and something other than bring us back to earth and away from thinking about only ourselves.
You can’t go wrong by being kind.
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“I know some of you reading this may already be thinking of that person who hurt you and how they don’t deserve your compassion. And you may be right, they probably don’t. But this isn’t about them as much as it’s is about you. Showing compassion to those who hurt us is oddly the most compassionate thing we can do for ourselves.”
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How can you spread kindness and compassion today? Start small, start anywhere.
My need to be perfect and work hard often makes me feel like I’m working towards something. I know this is partially true, but I also know that giving all you’ve got to the grind of your life can make you miss the actual life part of your life. It can be the very thing that stops us from moving forward.
Self-Forgiveness & Standing Still
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At any given moment, we're given the opportunity to do something kind for someone else. It doesn't even have to be someone we know. But how often do we let those moments pass us by? How many times do we actually make the move towards compassion instead of continuing on with our lives?
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Compassion. When we try to understand and ease pain, we set in motion a wave of infinite love and possibility.
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Over the years of working with leaders and their teams from small through to very large organizations I have distilled the key qualities of bold leadership into ‘The 7 C’s’. They are Confidence, Courage, Compassion, Commitment, Connection, Contribution and Community.
The 7 C’s Of Bold Leadership
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Those who are grieving know how unsettling it is for grief to seep out in front of strangers. Friends have shut us down, or turned away, because our emotions were too strong or went on for too long. But when we are here, among our tribe, we can be honest.
Grief & Mercy
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“For me compassion is made up of a number of things – including Kindness, Openness and Forgiveness – be these towards oneself, or towards others.”
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When discussing emotional healing, everyone seems to fixate on the home run of forgiveness, like it’s something you can simply decide to do. No one ever talks about what it takes to sincerely forgive or how to get there, leaving a lot of people with the common misconception that forgiveness happens on its own with the passing of time.
To Those Of Us Who Need Healing
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As a native New Yorker (I currently reside in New Jersey), I often understand why we get bashed for our fast-paced, care-free lifestyle. We see so much happening in our day to day environment that it’s easy to feel as though in order to survive and not be taken advantage of, we must close our eyes and cover our ears to the realities and overstimulating demands of our environment. As a result, we often become numb to the need for compassion and taking care of others.
The Compassionate New Yorker
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This month at Holstee, we're setting our focus on Compassion: how can we actively feel for others? How can we extend mercy to ourselves?
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Extending compassion to yourself.
Have you ever noticed that we're often kinder to others than we are to ourselves? Think about how you would react to a friend going through a tough situation. You would probably be encouraging, truthful and try to remind them of all the ways they're going to succeed. You would be there for them.
Alternatively, we tend to push ourselves too hard, give ourselves less of a break and don't let ourselves believe we can do better. Why is that? Why do we often resort to self-compassion after life gives us little other choice? What can happen when we don't pressure ourselves to be perfect?
Read more on Mindful Matter.