it's time!

Ya know I really had to give that whole d*ddy dom shit a side eye because I was on POF and this guy messaged me about being into it. He mentioned in the conversation (he meant for this to be a cute funny story, mind you) that while he was at Toys R us shopping for his young niece, he ended up getting an erection in one of the aisles because he heard a young girl telling her mother what toy she wanted. Apparently, he had “trained” his girlfriend to talk like a child and used to by toys for her so the whole atmosphere + kids aroused him. Like I guess constantly associated children/childish things with sex had a Pavlovian response? Honestly??? I think it’s time we discussed how more often than not, some of these “kinks” can and do spill over into real life and it’s dangerous

You know what’s real cute? I have disgusting men and their brainwashed girlfriends in my inbox claiming that I’m “kink shaming” that pervert for having a “natural reaction” and that what he and his gf do in private is their business. Sweetheart, the minute you start getting boners around children that becomes my business. I’m still not over how nonchalantly he mentioned this to me as if I’d find it hilarious

Girl, I pointed out on FB how gross this is and how it’s problematic because it perpetuates pedaphila and got all kinds of hate about it saying that it was normal and natural. Like, what part??? It’s gross and whenever your sexual life involves kids in any way (in this case taking things that are meant for children and using it in your sex life) than your gross and need to do something with yourself.

Sis anyone who claims any sort of disgusting behaviour is “normal” is telling on themselves. They want it normalized so they’ll face no consequences. Tbh I hope they all choke

I should add some more..

i want to eat this. i literally find no shame in wanting to slurp it

May I bother you for a cup of dried corn?

The version of this story I read years ago (out of curiosity for the song’s use in Lilo & Stitch when Nani was forced to give up Lilo…) was so unbelievably cut down, it made it seem like her failing, rather than all these odds stacked up against her. Thank you for all the further context. ;_;