•sweet pea•

lil tail curl… sunbeam… happy closed eyes… symmetrical face markings… excellent whiskers… yes, this is a High Quality Cat

current relationship status: sleeping diagonally across my queen size bed

Im honestly not understanding where the disconnect is…like why do men undervalue platonic relationships with women? if a woman is not into you sexually or romantically but wants to be your friend why is that seen as some sort of cheap consolation prize….also theirs the gross thing that men do where they take you (as a woman) saying “no, i just wanna be friends” as some sort of challenge, or obstacle to be overcome…like they’ll be your friend with the motive of convincing you that your feelings were wrong and that you do actually have romantic feelings for them.

honestly i dont even play an active role in my life shit just happens and im like oh is this what we’re doing now ok

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