welcome! you can call me buttercup or alessa. the former is what my Lady calls me, and I tend to prefer it.
I'm 25, she/her, bisexual with a big soft spot for women in their 40s and 50s (and in positions of authority).
about me 𓃬
✿ I'm a mommy's girl at heart. I prefer women and prefer them much older. I love milfs. I have a mommy kink
✿ this is my secret sapphic slut sideblog. likes and follows come from my main
✿ I'm very loyal to a beautiful older woman in her 50s. she's the inspiration behind my posts, so I'm not looking for a mommy/domme. this blog is for my own personal fantasies and to express my love for her.
✿ this is an 18+ blog. if you're a minor and you dm me or don't have an age in your bio, I will block you. if you're weird in my dm's or ask box I'll block you
✿ feel free to message me, I really enjoy talking to people. I also don’t send pics so don’t ask to see me
✿ asks are open. repeat anons feel free to claim an emoji. I love asks!
✿ I use my queue a lot, so sometimes I won't actually be online if you see me posting, but I do check my messages at least once a day
anons ⦂ 💋🐶🌻
my answered tag is #buttercup.answers
for all my own posts #buttercup.drips
what I’m listening to #buttercup.music
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kinks
yes: md/lg dynamics, fauxcest, praise, age difference, pet play, spanking/impact play, nursing/breastfeeding, orgasm control, light bondage, somno, light humiliation
no: body fluids that aren't cum/spit, snuff, vore, and anything else with pain or torture, scat, real incest, pregnancy
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Absolutely love your blog ! If u don’t mind me asking, how did u and ur mommy discover that u two had a mdlg kink ? And how did u incorporate into ur relationship? Only asking bc i love older women and im curious on how mdlg could get brought up :] but ofc u don’t have to answer if u don’t want to !
honestly by the time we got together the foundation for md/lg was already there. prior to dating she naturally took on a dominant caretaking role in our bond and I took on a very submissive one. then by the time we actually did get together there was all this emotional history and trust.
my older woman is very nurturing by default, and she’s also 100% dominant. since I was already submissive to her, there wasn’t really a question like “do you want me to be your mommy?” or “do you want to try md/lg?” she kind of just already did a lot of those things.
however, she’s been in the kink scene for a long time and was already very into dom/sub play, so through little discoveries and conversations she actually explained to me how a lot of these things we were doing fell under md/lg or dd/lg. I actually didn’t know md/lg was a thing until we got together but it was relieving knowing there was a term for what I wanted and needed... thinking about it I’m actually shocked I never knew that’s what it was called.
anyway, a lot of these conversations were actually really simple. she already knew I had a mommy kink from the beginning, I was very open about it. with an age gap as big as ours, conversations about why we were attracted to each other and what we liked came up pretty quickly, so none of this was exactly a surprise to either of us.
she’d ask me questions about things we were already doing, like whether I liked when she picked out my clothes, or told me when to eat, or generally took care of me in little ways.
I figured things out too. I remember telling her that I liked when she baby talked me, and I remember admitting that I liked being taken care of and feeling ‘little’ with her. I also remember the day I asked if I could call her mommy, it was like she’d been waiting for me to ask, she went “would that make your little heart happy? you can call me mommy. I’d like that too”. surprised I didn’t explode actually.
aghdh I hope that helps answer your question! it was never a dramatic conversation, just a bunch of little ones over time. I think if you’re truly with someone who cares about you and that you trust, these kinds of conversations aren’t as difficult or scary as they seem. good luck with your older women, anon! I’m rooting for you ♡
edit: also, as the relationship got more serious and more stable, we also got kinkier! the more trust we built, the more comfortable we became exploring things together. a lot of the dynamic that felt instinctive in the beginning just kept growing as we learned more about ourselves and each other.
omg hi!! first of all, lovelovelove your blog & may be a little off topic but i saw you post your nails one time and oh hello we need more of that?! they were sooo stunning 𐔌՞. .՞𐦯 i'm also forever in search of inspo for my next sets i cannot even lie
૮꒰˶ - ˕ -꒱ა i hope your day/night is wonderful, lots of kisses xxxx
awe thank you, glad you love the blog!! also hi, yes, I remember the nail post! I can certainly post more of those, I love showing them off. in fact, I’m getting a fresh set on Sunday!
I always show my lady a few options and let her pick her favorite one. then she’ll spoil me by paying for my nails and coming with me and getting a pedicure for herself (sometimes she’ll try to match my nails it’s cute).
stay tuned this sunday to see what she’ll pick ( ˘͈ ᵕ ˘͈♡)
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earlier at work this stunning older woman probably somewhere in her 40s kept telling me I was so pretty and how she loved my hair and how bold I was with my style and how she wished she could pull something like that off but she was “too old” to do anything fun with her hair and that her “wrinkles weren’t stylish” and in my head I was like ma’am you have no ideaaaa, go talk to some lesbians 15 years younger than you I promise they wanna eat you out up
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One of the hottest things ever is when a sub gets possessive over a dom. Like oh? What’s that sweetheart? I’m yours? Why thank you for feeling brave enough to say that. You are absolutely right princess, you’re my special girl and the only one I want. Now why don’t you come over and sit in my lap and I’ll show you juuuuust how special you are to me.
I’m not supposed to work, I’m meant to lounge in the sun all day drinking wine and being fed fruit from the hand of my gorgeous, successful, older lover ‧₊ᵎᵎ🍒⋅°✮
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I adore your blog :) it's been such a comfort to me lately since I can't date an older lady right now (and only discovered that I even want to like 6 months ago, thanks in part to your posts) because I have to move out of my area first, and I often have this feeling that I'll never manage to find someone who can be a mother and also a partner. Your posts remind me that beautiful older ladies who want younger women do in fact exist out there!! I usually stay off this account for a few days and then I come back and read all your posts that I missed :> it's like a reward
Anyway, best of luck to you and your lady :) and thank you for posting about your relationship!! Lovely to hear about thriving wlw couples <3
this makes me happy, thank you so much!! I feel like I got really lucky that my woman and I connected in the way that we did and she was secretly a kinky freak. but I do know what it’s like to yearn and yearn and yearn and feel like you’ll never meet a woman who can take care of you the way you need.
I’m glad that my posts help show people that it won’t necessarily be like that forever. beautiful and older women are out there, and they await you, my friend. thank you for the kindness <3
