I STAND WITH MARK HARMON! Pauley is a liar!

I think someone is having problems with her lies…

Wasn’t it on Twitter where she mentioned that she was raped by a high profile football player or something like that? Now it suddenly turned into a gang rape?

FYI: Being raped is a horrible thing and it pisses me off when someone makes up shit for attention. Millions of women and men from all over the world have to deal with such life changing and destroying nightmares. How anyone can make up a claim of rape is beyond me.

All tweets from July 21st 2020!

So, Pauley read an article about the abuse by a show runner on a different CBS show. Pauley mentions that she knew of this guy’s abuse for a long time but did nothing even though some of her closest friends works on that show. Pauley remained silent about it UNTIL someone else fought the guy. And then she has the gall to expect rewards for knowing of this show runner’s behavior and doing nothing. 

She remained silent over actual abuse but screams and shouts over alleged abuse in form of physical and psychological abuse. 

2018: in secret DMs to fans she called Harmon a psychopath, bully & narcisst 

2019: she openly accuses Harmon of physical assaults, punching & shoving her around, bodychecking her

2020: Add to that she also now claims Harmon is a misogynist, homophobe and racist

So far, she could NOT prove her allegations. Not a single one. So, the question is what more could she accuse Harmon off next year? There’s a pattern. With every year she adds more accusations towards him.

Despite: Knowing that Harmon is friends with people of color and gay couples in real life. Despite having shown support towards a former make-up artist from NCIS when she was fighting breast cancer. He collected donations, doubled it and brought it to her in person. Someone else made that public, not Harmon.

Let’s move on: She is seeking symphathy by bringing her dead mother into this. Her mother died when Pauley was a child, not an adult trying to make a career in Hollywood.

Also, she claimed that she hadn’t paid attention to the abuse happening since day one. So, she really isn’t the humanitarian she wants the world to believe she is when she willingly and happily ignores bullying and so on as long she gets lots of money and publicity.

And another thing: This is the woman who cheered her now ex-boyfriend Thomas Arklie on when he called a straight man a “faggot”. So much for supporting the LGBTQ campaign.

Now, several fans with accounts on Twitter, Tumblr and even Instagram have made it public that a great bunch of crew members has reached out to them with proof of Pauley’s wrong doings and bad behavior on set. She was caught on camera verbally and from what I understand, also physically attacking members of the crew and cast. Does that sound like the cast and crew are supporting her? Secretly or not? Personally, I haven’t seen videos or photos but I’ve been chatting with one member of the crew who’s very happy to be rid of the “entitled, selfish liar”. It speaks volumes about how people that spend working with her for over 10 years view her behavior. I have heard stories of how she refused to work with certain guest stars, how she threw tantrums when she didn’t get her wishes. I could go on. I don’t need to see any videos. I’ve seen enough of her lies, accusations and the damage those caused to the individuals she has targeted in the past.

Let’s not forget: Harmon and Cote de Pablo were both being trashed by her in public. The private DMs about her thoughts of Cote had been released. Part of me hopes that someone soon will leak the other DMs she wrote to fans talking badly of Sasha Alexander, Lauren Holly, Jennifer Esposito, Maria Bello, Emily Wickersham and Diona Reasonover. Or the ones of her rather digusting thoughts of David McCallum, Michael Weatherly, Sean Murray, Brian Dietzen, Rocky Carroll, Duane Henry and Wilmer Valderrama and even Donald Bellisario.

You see, she has trashed all of them, in private or in public. Pauley Perrette thinks everyone should believe her. Everyone questioning her, seriously very contradicting, accusations is called a “troll” or “hater”. 

But why should we believe her words and not doubt them? Because she is white? Because she is a woman? Because she is a white woman? That’s right. We are not to demand any sort of proof for her allegations, past, present and future. She won’t stop now. Or at some point. For as long as she has those brainless and mindless fans believing every single one of her sob or hero stories, she won’t stop. More is to come.

And the absolute nerve of her to state that she had to use her own money to pay for lawyers is astonishing. It really is. All over the world people fear losing their jobs because of the pandemic, people are struggling to survive in every aspect of their daily lives: monetary and healthwise. For someone with millions of $$$ in her account, she comes across as a whiny and uncaring bitch.

And it doesn’t matter if her entitlement and need to make everything about herself take away the spotlight and attention from REAL abuse and tragedies as long as it brings her the attention she craves.

Last but not least, she is once again throwing shade at the entire cast and crew of NCIS whilst claiming she wants to protect them. Weird, isn’t it? And then she has to drag people into this that weren’t around, that only know one side of the story. Attention seeking behavior right in front of our eyes.

And never ever forget that she was/is close friends with Les Moonves and has Harvey Weinstein’s fixers on her payroll. Remember that she had no problem to throw Eliza Dushku under the bus because Pauley, at least for the public pretends to, like the guy.

And in a different recent tweet of hers she claimed herself to have been a model since the age of 2… well, didn’t she always say that she never intended to become famous? That she kind of accidently stumbled into acting? Which one is it? Like, she hates all food and that humans need it to live and in the next week food is yummy and she only hates some foods, not all.

Actually she doesn't. Not really at least. She had agreed that she would never go back to NCIS as well. But she has never said anything about being bullied or abused by either Mark Harmon or anyone else during her time on the show.

She also was not present when whatever happened between Pauley Perrette and Mark Harmon had happened. Therefore, Lauren Holly is not a witness and she is also very biased since it seems that she only knows one side of the story, Pauley's.

Now again, our decision has nothing to do with the actual accusations by Pauley Perrette against Mark Harmon as we, the admins of this blog, have not been on the set and therefore, cannot say that she is telling the truth or not. Whatever we say on this blog or our sister blog---- is based on what we feel is right or wrong. What our editors may believe or not believe is up to them and we have no desire to dictate anything to them. We have posted Pauley Perrette photos after she first made those accusations against Mark Harmon.

Our decision is based purely on the fact that she has heavily implied that the other women on the show - past and present actresses, guest stars, crew members - are tolerating behavior that they stand up against. Implying that long standing actresses such as Maria Bello or actresses of colour such as Diona Reasonover are tolerating bad behavior for the sake of money is not making herself look as good since it would also mean that she, Pauley Perrette herself, has tolerated, protected and supported that kind of behavior for over 15 years. Please do keep that in mind.

Both Maria Bello and Diona Reasonover are in same sex relationships. Diona Reasonver is married to her female wife, Maria Bello is engaged with her female fiancé. Both are standing up for the rights of women, just like Jennifer Esposito does. Cote de Pablo is a chilean actress, she was not born in America. But she supports several charities as well. We, the admins, find it highly unlikely that all of them would ignore, tolerate or protect anyone bullying them or other women in their place of work.

Pauley Perrette, Sasha Alexander and Lauren Holly fight for the rights of women, too but did not hesitate to take Michael Weatherly's side in the case of his verbal sexual harassment of Eliza Dushku. They have ignored the fact that there was evidence, a lot money being paid and Michael Weatherly admitting having said those things. It did not matter to Pauley Perrette as she herself made it clear on her Twitter that it never happened. Neither of these women have shown any sign of respect for Eliza Dushku but they are the first in line to demand that everyone takes only their words for facts. Lauren Holly has talked about her experience with Harvey Weinstein and Pauley Perrette has more than once talked about her own experience with several individuals. Shouldn't those two women have shown at the very least a little bit of respect for what Eliza Dushku had to endure?

At the end of the day, Pauley Perrette implying that every single person working on the show is hiding, supporting or tolerating any type of bullying is not something we can simply ignore. Again, we do not know if she said the truth about Mark Harmon. We have have heard bits and pieces from Pauley Perrette's side as Mark Harmon has remained silent.

And last but not least, we find it incredibly hard to believe that long standing and iconic actors such as David McCallum and actresses such as Maria Bello would be afraid of Mark Harmon. Being the to-go-guy and even being an executive producer might gives him a little bit of power and influence on NCIS but it surely does not give him any over CBS or the heads of the network. He does not have the power in Hollywood as Weinstein, Moonves, Epstein and others in high positions. Mark Harmon is an actor, mostly for television since from what we know most of his movies were not that successful. He is one in a million of very well known and popular television actors but they do not have the power that blockbuster producers or network heads have. Pauley Perrette implying that he does is therefore, in our opinion, an unamusing joke.

I hope that our reply has made it clear that our decision has nothing to do with the actual accusations against Mark Harmon but rather with the (badly) hidden attack on every single women that has ever worked on the show, behind or in front of the scenes. Women should support other women, not attack them.

The latest verbal attack by Pauley Perrette on Mark Harmon and CBS gives all of the women mentioned above a bad reputation. We have tried to stay unbiased regarding the dramatic turn of events that ended the co-worker-relationship between Pauley Perrette and Mark Harmon as we were not present on the set and do not know either of them peronally. But now Pauley Perrette has attacked all of them. From the producers, to the cast and crew. 

I have tried to limit the Pauley Perrette posts for a year (give and take a few months) but after her latest round of Tweets I have come to a final decision: 

No more Pauley on this blog!

Abby of course will still be posted, reblogged and tagged. But I’ll take down all Pauley posts and remove her tag from any group posts.

I know I cannot go into detail of what I know. Unfortunately I cannot post the photos and videos that were shared with me. If I had not seen any of this I would probably believe her, too. But I have seen the photos, the videos and were told about how she behaved on set. So I know that she is not telling the truth. And I also know that she had not a single nice word for any of her former co-stars to say. Not even those she still associates with for publicity like Brian, Rocky, Sasha, Michael and Lauren for example. 

Her actions are upsetting me greatly. Because those lies said by a woman can not only seriously damage the reputation, career and life of the accused, no it also makes it harder for every women who was truly abused (in any way) to get believed and helped, supported. 

It is frustrating for me to see exactly this happening and knowing it’s lies but not being able to prove it. I mean, I have the proof but cannot share it because that would mean that innocent people, who work hard, lose their jobs. 

And just a little info for you: On NCIS, among the crew are several gays, lesbians and people of color. They are not being treated badly as Pauley now claims. This is literally 1 woman against over 300 people that are working or have worked on that show and she is implying that all of them are bad people for either bullying others or protecting the bully(s). Think about that.

There was an attack, but it was PP attacking MH! These are the reasons why I think she took a calculated action to hurt his reputation.

1. He was announced as the prestigious award winner of the Football Associations Gold Metal for his “accomplishments and reputation”.

2. He was on the TV Guide cover as TVs #1 actor

3. Cote de Pablo returned and received massive attention and there’s another TV Guide cover (and not her)

4. And foremost, she knows Mark, and that means she knows he will take the high road, not her low road, and will not take part or defend himself.

Longer post ahead!

I’ve been thinking about the best way to address the issue and how to explain my decisions. Allow me to explain everything, which means reading this to the end.

I guess all of us have seen those recent tweets by Pauley. She had tweeted similar allegations last year without naming anyone. It left a lot of people guessing. I definitely include myself here. I was wondering and confused, just like most people in the fandom.

I have submitted some things that I had found on the internet back then to CBS. I guess that is how some crew members got my e-mail address. I was contacted by one person first. Then in the following weeks I had gotten more e-mails from crew members.

Shivers was abusing and stalking her during and after their marriage. She has a restraining order and jailed him. When they were married, she made him taking a restraining order on his ex Bebe. After Pauley and Shivers split because she cheated on him, she joined cases with Bebe whom Pauley before claimed to have been stalking and threatening her and Shives. The court documents are public. Funny thing: LONG BEFORE this happened she wrote a script for a movie. Title: Star Crazy. It was handwritten and admitted to court and is available. Index: Actress meets musician, get married, in a divorce she stalks him and ruins his life, she is making a huge deal with charities to show her sweet side.

Rivas was a boyfriend of hers and brought a cat into the relationship. Pauley stole the cat from him and claimed to have caught him having sex with his sister. She claimed to have had a restraining order against him to avoid court. She never had such an order tho.

David Merck is a homeless man she claimed to have attackted her. He was jailed for about a year without trial, only her accusations which contradicted themselves greatly. He was let out before she had to testify.

Now it seems that she’s after Harmon. I wonder what he did to have made it on her list of big bad evil men.

I wonder who’s next? And what she’s coming up with next time?

I wish someone would stop her and have her admitted. She seems to have serious mental issues. But nobody seems to stop her. No matter how public things are, it won’t be brought up because she’s manipulating everyone and everything.

I am incredibly saddened by all the evidence against Pauley. I’ve been a fan of NCIS, including Pauley, for many years and I made the terrible mistake of believing her words and believing in her. All the rumors and stories about her ex-husband, numerous assault accusations against several people, mysterious notes falling out of things during an interview, even more mysterious team-ups with people who press charges and later drop them.

I am one of the many people who refused to even look at things from a different perspective. I admit that and I was wrong. In the past couple of days I have spent a lot hours searching the internet for everything I could find, downloaded several things and read them. From Pauley’s own accusations, hand written scripts to statements from witnesses and questioned friends of all people involved. I am deeply shocked by what I found out and my own refusal of many years.

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Pauley married Fancis Shivers, also known as Coyote Shivers (he’s a musician), in 2000, they seperated in 2004 and obtained their divorce in 2006. Shivers actually worked in the music department of NCIS for a few years.

Pauley and Francis retained a restraining order against his first ex-wife Bebe Buell (Liv Taylor’s mom). Pauley herself stated stalking, harassment and threats as her reasons to do so. You can find her court document here:

- Declaration of Pauley Perrett 08-19-2001 (you have to download, it’s PDF)

After Pauley and Shivers separated in 2004, Pauley threatened Shivers with ruining his life by doing to him what SHE wrote in a script from a couple of years ago (I think 2 or so years before they split). The script she wrote is called “Star Crazy”. I posted the 3 screencaps of her handwritten script idea. Some parts were highlighted but you can also download it here:

- Star Crazy -highlighted (PDF)

Here are statements from Blaire Barnette, who was acquainted with both Perrette and Shivers, and who by coincidence is also the individual who served Perrette with Shivers’ divorce petition.

“In November 2004 I visited Francis Shivers at his house on Whitley Terrace. There he told me about the extramarital affair his wife “Pauley” had with a boy she would only describe as the “pizza boy.” He said she was terrified of her sex scandal being exposed and made very frightening threats about what she would do if he ever told anybody. He then showed me a script Pauley wrote and explained that Pauley threatened she would do this to him.”

The script was entitled “Star Crazy” and a basic outline of the plot almost reads like a plagiarized version of precisely what has happened to Francis Shivers in the aftermath of his divorce from Perrette, with the sole caveat that it was written by Perrette two years before any of this started manifesting in real life.

There’s more from Blaire Barnette, who recalls what happened in relation to the day that she served Pauley Perrette with the divorce papers, and Perrette’s ensuing allegations:

“I later recall reading court papers where Pauley lied to the court and said I stalked her and assaulted her, and that I punched her in the chest and she suffered a sore chest from the attack. Nothing could be further from the truth. Pauley was served and that is all. It was photographed and witnessed. It was at this point I really saw the “Star Crazy” at work, completely lying to a court, falsely accusing me of assault, just to further her vindictive goals.”

Then there are statements from Lisa Lynch. She was Pauley’s best friend for years, they even got matching tattoos on some point:

“I have been present when Ms. Perrette broke up with lovers in her past, and I can say she has a history of vindictive actions toward them, when none was warranted. In particular, I recall her stealing the cat of her ex-boyfriend Daniel Rivas, and then when he wanted to take her to court about this, Ms. Perrette filled out the paperwork for a restraining order in Retaliation.”

Here’s Lisa Lynch’s court declaration from 2006: - Declaration Of Lisa Lynch 09-17-2006 (PDF)

At this point, it is to mention that Pauley claimed to have caught Daniel Rivas in bed having sex with his own sister. Years later, she helped him getting job on NCIS. Coincidence? His career suffered a lot after her accusations.

I could write so much more but I think you can do the rest on your own now. I’m so disappointed in Pauley. But even more so, I’m so disappointed in myself for never having done this research before, for blindly believing her.

Anywas: Here’s a list of court documentations you can download:

[1]Court Transcript 01-31-2005

[2]Declaration of Pauley Perrett 08-19-2001

[3]Declaration Of Lisa Lynch 09-17-2006

[4]Declaration Of Jason Fishbein 02-05-2007

[5]Declaration Of Blair Barnette 02-04-2007

[6]Star Crazy -highlighted

And my sources:

- https://nypost.com/2013/03/24/ncis-star-accused-of-waging-vindictive-campaign-against-ex-husband/

- https://www.avoiceformen.com/restraining-order-terrorism/a-catalog-of-avfm-articles-on-the-shiversperrette-case/ (you can find a detailed list of the articles they did on Pauley/Shivers, it’s a lot to read but it is eye opening)

- http://gotnews.com/topic/pauley-perrette/ (check out each link and read them)

- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tBZXs8YxJ6w&feature=youtu.be&t=1m34s (this is a video. About 4:50 you can see the original video of Pauley admitting to “Star Crazy”. Her reaction is interesting.

I’m sorry to all who feel offended by me posting this but: it appears that Pauley not only accuses random people of abuse/attack/assaults (the homeless men) but that she seems to plan certain actions like accusing people. This fits with her recent tweets which shocked me deeply because I seriously believed her. My first reaction was shock, anger at whoever did this to her but after learning about her past accusations, I cannot just simply believe anything she tells us.

She wrote that script “Star Crazy” and years later she began to live it. All the charities she supports, she does it for the wrong reasons and not because she believes in them.