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@healingharm-blog
You know that feeling when all your emotions build up inside yourself and you get so worked up that your ready to explode? Your ready to punch, swear, scream, do something you’re going to regret just to get rid of it….
And then you feel worse in a different kind if way…
Behind every bad feeling,...
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Teenage eyes Can’t see the lies.
That’s why they’re scared Of the light.
Their curtained cave of shadows Brings comfort; The truth of the mirror Is kept out of sight.
They have One Direction, But true perfection Is something make-up And Instagram Can disguise.
They’ve watched through Twelve months, twelve times;
Life is an overplayed YouTube clip, And they know the lines. But they’ve failed to find The meaning in it all.
Evening diary entries To FaceTime, Facebook - Face up to it: Their face Is all they need, looking out, giving out, But they forget to look in, And they’re tempted to give up.
They cut To reassure That their inner pain is real. Because those in-between years Are all knowledge without understanding, All hope with no freedom, All certainty without perspective.
And those beautiful wise eyes, Are still blind. But they’re learning how to see.
She's now nearly 13. Soon I'm going to post the same interview, but 4 years later, to measure how she's changed her view as she's grown up. What changes do you think there will be?
Get perspective. Things are not as bad as they seem. You realise that when you look out rather than in. Our eyes are made to look out into the world, not to analyse ourselves. Look out. Take a deep breath. Appreciate the beauty. Appreciate the ugliness. It all contributes to the richness of life.
Message me if you need to.
What is anger, anyway?
You know that feeling when all your emotions build up inside yourself and you get so worked up that your ready to explode? Your ready to punch, swear, scream, do something you're going to regret just to get rid of it.... And then you feel worse in a different kind if way... Behind every bad feeling, there are two ways to deal with it so it will go away. 1. (Maybe it's the easy way, maybe it's the hard way, I'm not sure!) Indulge in the emotion - scream, relieve the inner pain, hurt yourself, eat too much, throw up, do anything that will make you feel better - for the next couple of hours. It might relieve the pain temporarily, but it's not going to cure it, and your going to feel it again in the future. You end up in a hamster wheel of build up, guilt, and indulgence. It's not that good, as you'll know. 2. Sooo much harder.... But so much better. Find. The. Cause. You feel angry? Then find what made you angry and put a stop to it. Retrace your steps - maybe it's through the past day, week, month, or year. What triggered those feelings in you? Is it when you get into a conversation about homework with your mum? Try to avoid getting into it, or work out a new way you can react without getting into an argument. Because someone's bullying you? Think about what exactly they say that makes you angry. Find a way to reframe it. They are unhappy about themselves perhaps, so their jealousy takes a form of hateful words. It's not easy, and I'm not trying to tell you that it is. But for every painful feeling.. There is a cause. I promise you there is. And that cause might have been planted by you or it might have been planted by someone else. If you can try and figure out what it is, as though it's a weed growing inside of you, you can work on pulling it out.....
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What's your worth?
It confuses me that so many people on tumblr call themselves 'worthless'. They are so wrong.. Yet they are so right. How can any human being be called worthy? Or one be worth more than the other? If you call your self worthless or worthy, you would be assuming that humans are an object to place a value on. We are not an object - at the very least we have a capacity to feel pain, and hopefully happiness. We are not worthless. We are priceless. You are priceless.
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Wise Eyes
Teenage eyes Can’t see the lies. That’s why they’re scared Of the light.
Their curtained cave of shadows Brings comfort; The truth of the mirror Is kept out of sight.
They have One Direction, But true perfection Is something make-up And Instagram Can disguise.
They’ve watched through Twelve months, twelve times; Life is an overplayed YouTube clip, And they know the lines. But they’ve failed to find The meaning in it all.
Evening diary entries To FaceTime, Facebook - Face up to it: Their face Is all they need, looking out, giving out, But they forget to look in, And they’re tempted to give up.
They cut To reassure That their inner pain is real. Because those in-between years Are all knowledge without understanding, All hope with no freedom, All certainty without perspective.
And those beautiful wise eyes, Are still blind. But they’re learning how to see.
'Dont judge me'
We can be so obsessed with what other people think - to the point that it can literally drive you insane! Seriously - think of how much pain has come from others telling other people that they’re fat, or ugly, or stupid.
When we hurt, what is our first, natural response?
We want to get rid of the pain: we take an antidote to cure it. If we have a migraine, we take a painkiller, and if we're called fat, we might decide to stop eating. In the same way, if someone tells us were stupid and worthless, if the pain comes from constantly trying to prove your worth, you might decide that it’s less painful to just decide to start believe what they say, to stop the friction, just to start believing that they are right.
We know that’s not healthy.
But were just trying to get rid of the pain, right?
What if we decided that instead of trying to cure the pain, that the pain itself was optional?
I know. It might sound ridiculous. Pain is painful - I just have to learn to deal with it…
What about the example of a migraine - if we never consider the cause of it then we might just have to deal with taking pain killers for the rest of our lives. But what if we realised that the migraine was triggered by eating a certain food? We could just decide to stop eating that food and we’d never have to suffer again.
The same is true for painful feelings!
We need to learn what our triggers are to pain and how we can filter them out. Yes, it’s easier said done, and it takes more than one blog post to achieve it.
Keep reading this site and we can figure it out how to filter out our pains one post at a time.
This isn't a blog about...
This isn’t a blog about: Depression, self-harm, anxiety, being a teenager, being misunderstood, suicide, negative thoughts, morbid indulgence, self hate, or confusion.
This blog is about one thing - hope.
Hope is a powerful idea, because it promises that no matter what the present conditions are telling you, no matter what hurt or indescribable pain you are going through, that there is an alternative possibility - that the future can get better, much better, more amazing than your current imagination can handle.
You say you've run out of hope? You can’t find it?
This is the place for hope. Stay here, and it will not escape you.
Someone once told me that it’s not what happens to you in life that matters - it’s how you respond. This blog is going to help us all to respond to the bad things that happen in life.
Were going to hope, heal, and think our way out of harm.
Anya is live and ready to show you everything. Watch her strip, dance, and perform exclusive shows just for you. Interact in real-time and make your fantasies come true.
Free to watch • No registration required • HD streaming
Every one who has ever built anywhere a "new heaven" first found the power thereto in his own hell.
Nietzsche
